A foster parent called to say that she had been informed that a bio mother for her foster child had found her information (address/phone) on google. This is a fairly violent and volatile woman who could pose a threat. She googled herself and found the information was readily available. She contacted Google and asked that she be blocked from their list because she is a foster parent and they took her off. She has checked again and it appears to have worked.
If you weren't aware this was possible, I thought people may want to know and pass this onto your foster/adoptive families!
Friday, December 28, 2007
Tax Season Info
If a child has been in your home for more than 6 mos during 2007, it is my understanding that you can use them as a deduction. If it is less than six months you can itemize what you spend on them. You may also be eligible for an earned income tax credit.
This is a head's up. Please consult a tax preparer for more info. Make sure your tax preparer allows you to use the child. Sometimes with foster care, even they don't know. Make them look it up! that is what you pay them for!
Carla
This is a head's up. Please consult a tax preparer for more info. Make sure your tax preparer allows you to use the child. Sometimes with foster care, even they don't know. Make them look it up! that is what you pay them for!
Carla
CoCo Key Water Resort Discount
We are excited to announce that Department of Social Services has been enrolled into the CoCo Key Water Resort E-Club Membership. As a member of this program, you are able to purchase online discounted tickets for the CoCo Key Water Resort.
Purchase tickets today by visiting our "Exclusive" CoCo Key Online Ticket Store in one or both of the following ways:
#1: Clicking on the following personalized online store web link (URL) on our Intranet site - password: GOL739 https://tickets.CoCoKeyWaterResort.com/affiliate.asp?ID=DA7DCC3A-1F10-4E3C-8894-5B8D66AF8CBD
#2: Go direct to our online store 24/7 at https://tickets.cocokeywaterresort.com and enter the following personalized Store Name: DSS SALEM
We hope you and your family will enjoy CoCo Key Water Resort!
Purchase tickets today by visiting our "Exclusive" CoCo Key Online Ticket Store in one or both of the following ways:
#1: Clicking on the following personalized online store web link (URL) on our Intranet site - password: GOL739 https://tickets.CoCoKeyWaterResort.com/affiliate.asp?ID=DA7DCC3A-1F10-4E3C-8894-5B8D66AF8CBD
#2: Go direct to our online store 24/7 at https://tickets.cocokeywaterresort.com and enter the following personalized Store Name: DSS SALEM
We hope you and your family will enjoy CoCo Key Water Resort!
Rotary Christmas Party
There's a nice story involving the holiday party the Hawthorne Hotel hosted Saturday for 100 foster children from the North Shore.
The Salem Rotary was the main sponsor, donating $2,500 to buy a present for each child.
And two Rotary members who took part have interesting connections to the event. Jeff Holloran, who owns his own Santa suit, played Santa Claus, as he has in past years. Jeff's mom works for the Department of Social Services.
One of the driving forces behind the event was Rotary President Juli Lederhaus, a human dynamo if there ever was one. Not only is she the general manager at the Hawthorne Hotel, but she is the mother of an adopted daughter and a foster daughter.
One of the foster parents in attendance was Mike Garvin, the former hotel manager.
The Salem Rotary was the main sponsor, donating $2,500 to buy a present for each child.
And two Rotary members who took part have interesting connections to the event. Jeff Holloran, who owns his own Santa suit, played Santa Claus, as he has in past years. Jeff's mom works for the Department of Social Services.
One of the driving forces behind the event was Rotary President Juli Lederhaus, a human dynamo if there ever was one. Not only is she the general manager at the Hawthorne Hotel, but she is the mother of an adopted daughter and a foster daughter.
One of the foster parents in attendance was Mike Garvin, the former hotel manager.
Grandparents raising Grandchildren
The AARP foundation has a whole website for this!
www.aarp.org/grandparents
There is a great newsletter to sign up for called Grandcare News for grandparents raising grandchildren.
www.aarp.org/grandparents
There is a great newsletter to sign up for called Grandcare News for grandparents raising grandchildren.
Monday, December 10, 2007
great holiday site
There are kids activities as well as Mrs. Claus' recipes.
Great site!
http://www.northpole.com/
Dinner with Santa
Spaghetti with Santa Buffet
North Shore Technical High School
30 Log Bridge Road
Middleton, MA
December 13, 2007 from 5 to 7 pm
$6 Adult $3 Children 10 and under
Things to do: decorate cookies, 50/50 raffle, bucket raffle, craft, picture with Santa
If you are interested in going please e-mail Connie Dawes at C.E.Dawes@Comcast.Net
North Shore Technical High School
30 Log Bridge Road
Middleton, MA
December 13, 2007 from 5 to 7 pm
$6 Adult $3 Children 10 and under
Things to do: decorate cookies, 50/50 raffle, bucket raffle, craft, picture with Santa
If you are interested in going please e-mail Connie Dawes at C.E.Dawes@Comcast.Net
Rotary Party
A GREAT time was had by all! I think this year's party was the best yet! Kudos to the Salem Rotary for sponsoring the party once again. The gifts were great, we had ice cream, cookie decorating, crafts, balloon artist, juggler and DJ. The party was definitely brought up several notches! Don't think we can top this one! Special thank you's to the Hawthorne Hotel for hosting the party!
Thursday, December 6, 2007
Resource for Finding MassHealth Dental Providers
MassHealth has an Internet link that you can use to help find a general Dentist, Orthodontist or other dental specialist that accepts MassHealth. Click on this link:
http://masshealth-dental.net/MemberServices/Default.aspx.
Go to "Find Provider" and type in the zip code for the georgraphic area in which you are looking for a provider.
In "Search Details", use the drop down menu to find the type of provider you are looking for.
To get a complete list of dental providers by county with details about which ones are accepting new patients, which ones can care for patients with special needs, those that have specific hours of operation and handicap access, and those that speak specific languages - click on "Documents" and scroll down to the "Provider Directory".
Click on "Documents" to also find information about dental beneftis, fact sheets and member forms.
If you have other questions, you can call the MassHealth Dental Program at 1-800-207-5019 for assistance.
http://masshealth-dental.net/MemberServices/Default.aspx.
Go to "Find Provider" and type in the zip code for the georgraphic area in which you are looking for a provider.
In "Search Details", use the drop down menu to find the type of provider you are looking for.
To get a complete list of dental providers by county with details about which ones are accepting new patients, which ones can care for patients with special needs, those that have specific hours of operation and handicap access, and those that speak specific languages - click on "Documents" and scroll down to the "Provider Directory".
Click on "Documents" to also find information about dental beneftis, fact sheets and member forms.
If you have other questions, you can call the MassHealth Dental Program at 1-800-207-5019 for assistance.
Ninth Annual "A Home for the Holidays"
The Dave Thomas Foundation for Adoption and Children's Action Network are pleased to present the ninth annual "A Home for the Holidays" television special on CBS December 21, 2007 at 8 p.m. EST / PST (7 p.m. CST / MST)! Tune in and watch "A Home for the Holidays" and share, through the eyes of a child, the joy of having a family - not just for the holidays, but forever.
Since 1999, this heartwarming holiday special has generated tens of thousands of calls from viewers moved to action after hearing true stories of families who adopted from foster care and of waiting children.
Since 1999, this heartwarming holiday special has generated tens of thousands of calls from viewers moved to action after hearing true stories of families who adopted from foster care and of waiting children.
Fun things to do with kids
The mall Santa at the Liberty Tree mall is reading stories to kids! December 7th- I think at 7 and I think kids wear Pj's. Please call Simon Malls for more info.
Sundaes with Mrs. Claus - Goodies in Danvers is hosting Sundaes with Mrs. Claus. Children will get cookie and hot chocolate while they await Mrs. Claus' arrival. When she arrives she will read "twas the Night Before Chirstmas" and then children will get a sundae!
Costs is $13 / Goodie Ice Cream, Maple St. Danvers. call to make reservation 978-762-4663 (tell them Carla sent ya!)
Dates are 1:00- 2:00 on December 9, 16 and 23rd.
Sundaes with Mrs. Claus - Goodies in Danvers is hosting Sundaes with Mrs. Claus. Children will get cookie and hot chocolate while they await Mrs. Claus' arrival. When she arrives she will read "twas the Night Before Chirstmas" and then children will get a sundae!
Costs is $13 / Goodie Ice Cream, Maple St. Danvers. call to make reservation 978-762-4663 (tell them Carla sent ya!)
Dates are 1:00- 2:00 on December 9, 16 and 23rd.
Tuesday, December 4, 2007
For anyone who just got new ID's
On the recent foster parent IDs you may have noticed that the photos were blotchy. In response to these poor quality photos, we have ordered a completely new printer. I don't know how long this will take. I have the feeling it could be some time before I will be able to print cards. I apologize for the inconvenience and assure you that as soon as I am able, that I will print your IDs again.
Owen Bailey, MSW
Owen Bailey, MSW
We still have room at the Helicopter Party on 12/15!
This party is for clients, but foster families are welcome. Santa arrives by Helicopter to the screeching delight of the young children.
Helicopter Santa Party
For Families with children 10 and under
Saturday December 15th
(raindate December 16th)
Manchester Athletic Club
1:00
Helicopter Santa Party
For Families with children 10 and under
Saturday December 15th
(raindate December 16th)
Manchester Athletic Club
1:00
Holiday House Tour
Karen McCarthy in Danvers decorates her house every year and opens her home to free tours. I think in her tiny house she has 16 Christmas trees!
December 6,7,8 and 9. Hours are not available yet.
79 Elliott Street, Danvers. You can't miss the house!
Right near the intersection of route 62 and Liberty Street
Tell her Carla sent you!
December 6,7,8 and 9. Hours are not available yet.
79 Elliott Street, Danvers. You can't miss the house!
Right near the intersection of route 62 and Liberty Street
Tell her Carla sent you!
Friday, November 16, 2007
Mama Mia Tickets
Limited amount of free tickets to Mama Mia are available.
Tuesday Nov 27th, 7pm at the Colonial. Contact Carla at 978-825-3862
Tuesday Nov 27th, 7pm at the Colonial. Contact Carla at 978-825-3862
Friday, November 9, 2007
MSPCC needs Your Vote!
We need your vote and you can do it right now! MSPCC is a finalist in the Brigham's Ice Cream Chronicle Coffee Crunch For Charity contest.
If we receive the most votes in this contest, Brigham's Ice Cream will donate up to $5,000 to help us send kids to camp next summer. Therefore, we need your support to win. Please visit the Brigham's website at http://www.brighams.com/special_events/chronicleContest_charityVote.asp and vote for MSPCC - Camp to Belong. Then, please forward this info on to anyone you know who would like to help the kids of Massachusetts.
If we receive the most votes in this contest, Brigham's Ice Cream will donate up to $5,000 to help us send kids to camp next summer. Therefore, we need your support to win. Please visit the Brigham's website at http://www.brighams.com/special_events/chronicleContest_charityVote.asp and vote for MSPCC - Camp to Belong. Then, please forward this info on to anyone you know who would like to help the kids of Massachusetts.
Rotary Party for Foster Children
I do not have the date 100% confirmed, but more than likely this is the date.
Please join us for our annual Foster Children’s Holiday Party sponsored by the Salem Rotary
Saturday Dec 8th from 1-4
(tentative date)
Salem Boys and Girls Club
Hathorne Blvd. Salem
Please RSVP to Carla at 978-825-3862 by Nov. 21st
Please join us for our annual Foster Children’s Holiday Party sponsored by the Salem Rotary
Saturday Dec 8th from 1-4
(tentative date)
Salem Boys and Girls Club
Hathorne Blvd. Salem
Please RSVP to Carla at 978-825-3862 by Nov. 21st
Public Hearing 11/14 at 10:30am re:CHINS legislation @ Gardner Auditiorium
I invite you to attend the hearing at the State House in Boston next Wednesday. Be there to support the CHINS reform efforts, and to learn more about the process of how public policy gets made. If you want to testify on the need for the reforms, that's terrific. But come and show your interest in the issue. Legislators sometimes make decisions based on who - or how many - are watching. It?s important that they know that many people think the system needs to be changed.
Volunteer needed
I will be getting new clothes for the donation room and I was hoping someone would come in and organize the room. If anyone has any time, we would love the help!
It is mostly hanging clothes and organizing by size, so when a child is placed the worker can grab an outfit or PJ's to get through the first night. Call Carla at 978-825-3862
It is mostly hanging clothes and organizing by size, so when a child is placed the worker can grab an outfit or PJ's to get through the first night. Call Carla at 978-825-3862
Babies R Us special event for us!!!
Adoptive / Foster Parents and Department of Social Services Staff Appreciation EventSunday – December 2 nd from 8:00am till 10:00am. Please note you must have invitation - foster parents will recieve in newsletter or I can send you one. DSS offices will have them on hand. I need to have you RSVP by Novemeber 28th. If you are closer to Salem NH, I can send you an invite for that event instead, just let me know. Call Carla at 978-825-3862
We would like to show you how much we appreciate what you have done for the children.
By “invitation only”, On Sunday December 2nd we’re going to open our doors at 8:00am till 10:00am just for you.
You will receive a Continental Breakfast, Baby Registry Registration, Personalized Shopping, Free Raffles and Special Coupons (on the backside). So don’t forget to mark your calendar, and bring the invitation with you.
We would like to show you how much we appreciate what you have done for the children.
By “invitation only”, On Sunday December 2nd we’re going to open our doors at 8:00am till 10:00am just for you.
You will receive a Continental Breakfast, Baby Registry Registration, Personalized Shopping, Free Raffles and Special Coupons (on the backside). So don’t forget to mark your calendar, and bring the invitation with you.
Children's Friends Groups
THE FOLLOWING GROUPS ARE FREE AT CFFS GLOUCESTER 978-283-7109
TEEN ANGER MANAGEMENT-BOYS WEDNESDAYS FOR 12 WEEKS 7PM CALL KATE RASHER X440 OR DAVID SWANSON X441
SUPPORT GROUP FOR FATHERS OF CHILDREN WITH ADHD THURSDAYS 12 WEEKS 5:30PM Call MARIAH MARSH X418 or JOEL BRUNNER X423
SOCIAL SKILLS AND RISK PREVENTION GROUP FOR YOUNG WOMEN Call HEATHER DUNTON X442 or DAVID SWANSON X441
SUPPORT GROUP FOR WOMEN WITH HISTORY OR TRAUMA/PTSD MONDAYS 9AM call RICHETTA MIGLIOZZI X 407 or AMY HUBBARD X 402
THEY ARE WAITING FOR THE GROUPS TO FILL AND THEN WILL GIVE A START DATE
ALSO ALL CFFS SITES ARE NOW OFFERING TRAUMA FOCUSED CBT IF INTERESTED I HAVE BROCHURES AND REFERRAL FORMS. THIS IS IDEAL TREATMENT IN IMPROVING SYMPTOMS OF PTSD, DEPRESSION, ANXIETY.
TEEN ANGER MANAGEMENT-BOYS WEDNESDAYS FOR 12 WEEKS 7PM CALL KATE RASHER X440 OR DAVID SWANSON X441
SUPPORT GROUP FOR FATHERS OF CHILDREN WITH ADHD THURSDAYS 12 WEEKS 5:30PM Call MARIAH MARSH X418 or JOEL BRUNNER X423
SOCIAL SKILLS AND RISK PREVENTION GROUP FOR YOUNG WOMEN Call HEATHER DUNTON X442 or DAVID SWANSON X441
SUPPORT GROUP FOR WOMEN WITH HISTORY OR TRAUMA/PTSD MONDAYS 9AM call RICHETTA MIGLIOZZI X 407 or AMY HUBBARD X 402
THEY ARE WAITING FOR THE GROUPS TO FILL AND THEN WILL GIVE A START DATE
ALSO ALL CFFS SITES ARE NOW OFFERING TRAUMA FOCUSED CBT IF INTERESTED I HAVE BROCHURES AND REFERRAL FORMS. THIS IS IDEAL TREATMENT IN IMPROVING SYMPTOMS OF PTSD, DEPRESSION, ANXIETY.
Evening of Giving
I am selling tickets for Evening of Giving.
The tickets are $10 each and out of that we keep $7 and $3 goes to the Simon Youth Foundation.
The event is on November 18th after the mall closes. Only ticket holders are let in for great sales, entertainment, door prizes and more. This is good for the North Shore Mall, Pheasant Lane Mall, Burlington Mall, Rockingham Park Mall, the Mall of Nh, Cape Cod Mall, and Solomon Pond Mall.
Call Carla at 978-825-3862 direct DSS ext 33862. Please pass this e-mail along to your friends!
All monies go toward holiday events for children and families.
The tickets are $10 each and out of that we keep $7 and $3 goes to the Simon Youth Foundation.
The event is on November 18th after the mall closes. Only ticket holders are let in for great sales, entertainment, door prizes and more. This is good for the North Shore Mall, Pheasant Lane Mall, Burlington Mall, Rockingham Park Mall, the Mall of Nh, Cape Cod Mall, and Solomon Pond Mall.
Call Carla at 978-825-3862 direct DSS ext 33862. Please pass this e-mail along to your friends!
All monies go toward holiday events for children and families.
Thursday, November 1, 2007
Free Tuition at Harvard University
Harvard University announced over the weekend that from now on undergraduate students from low-income families will pay no tuition. In making the announcement, Harvard’s president Lawre nce H. Summers said, ”When only 10 percent of the students in Elite higher education come from families in lower half of the income distribution, we are not doing enough. We are not doing enough in bringing elite higher education to the lower half of the income distribution.”
If you know of a family earning less than $ 60,000 a year with an honor student graduating from high school soon, Harvard University wants to pay the tuition. The prestigious university recently announced that from now on undergraduate students from low-income families can go to Harvard for free...no tuition and no student loans!
To find out more about Harvard offering free tuition for families making less than $ 60,000 a year visit Harvard’s financial aid website at: http://www.fao.fas.harvard.edu/ or call the school’s financial aid office at (617) 495-1581.
If you know of a family earning less than $ 60,000 a year with an honor student graduating from high school soon, Harvard University wants to pay the tuition. The prestigious university recently announced that from now on undergraduate students from low-income families can go to Harvard for free...no tuition and no student loans!
To find out more about Harvard offering free tuition for families making less than $ 60,000 a year visit Harvard’s financial aid website at: http://www.fao.fas.harvard.edu/ or call the school’s financial aid office at (617) 495-1581.
Monday, October 29, 2007
Bob's Coupon
I have coupons for Bob's that can be used to jump start your holiday shopping!!
25% off.
Let me know and I can put on in the mail to you.
They are good October 28- November 3
Carla
25% off.
Let me know and I can put on in the mail to you.
They are good October 28- November 3
Carla
Friday, October 26, 2007
FREE TIX- Wizard of Oz
Where: Veterans Middle School Performing Arts Center, 217 Pleasant Street, Marblehead
When: Saturday November 3 and 10 1:00 p.m. and 7:00 p.m.
Sunday November 4 and 11 1:00 p.m.
Bruce Whear, President and Owner of Wire 4 Hire, Inc. and the Marblehead Little Theatre would like to invite you to attend their exciting production of “The Wizard of Oz.” This is a family-friendly show complete with Munchkins, the red slippers, and Toto!
Many of you know that Bruce is both an avid theatre fan and an advocate of programs that seek to nurture and empower our children. This program hopes to open the doors of the theatre to those children who may not otherwise have access to the stage. Involvement in the theater can develop into a life-long love and appreciation for the many arts that cooperate together to make a successful show. Voice and music, costumes, make-up, acting, set design, script writing, directing, and so much more work together to create magic. This magic is something that we hope to instill in every member of every audience.
For more information on the Marblehead Little Theatre’s production of “The Wizard of Oz”, please visit www.m-l-t.org
FREE TIX- the Crucible
When:
Thursday, November 15
8:00 p.m.
Where: First
Church of Salem
316 Essex
Street, Salem
Bruce Whear, President and
Owner of Wire 4 Hire, Inc. and the Salem Theatre Company would like to invite you to attend their exciting production of "The Crucible." Complimentary tickets to one show are being offered to us!
The Salem Theatre Company
and its members are thrilled to be able to offer tickets to those teens and adults who may not have access to the theater in other ways. Arthur Miller's "The Crucible" is both entertaining and educational as it retells the history of the Salem Witch Trials. This is a wonderful opportunity to combine history, literature, and a great evening of fun.
For more information on the Salem
Theatre Company's production of "The Crucible", please visit www.salemtheatre.com
Thursday, November 15
8:00 p.m.
Where: First
Church of Salem
316 Essex
Street, Salem
Bruce Whear, President and
Owner of Wire 4 Hire, Inc. and the Salem Theatre Company would like to invite you to attend their exciting production of "The Crucible." Complimentary tickets to one show are being offered to us!
The Salem Theatre Company
and its members are thrilled to be able to offer tickets to those teens and adults who may not have access to the theater in other ways. Arthur Miller's "The Crucible" is both entertaining and educational as it retells the history of the Salem Witch Trials. This is a wonderful opportunity to combine history, literature, and a great evening of fun.
For more information on the Salem
Theatre Company's production of "The Crucible", please visit www.salemtheatre.com
Friday, October 19, 2007
Evening of Giving
We now are selling tickets for the Evening of Giving!
When: Sunday November 18th
See Carla for tickets!
Proceeds to benefit children's holiday activities
Children's Drop and Shop
2007 FALL/WINTER Children's Drop & Shop
Location:
Iron Rail Cape Ann Gymnastics Center8 Kondelin Rd.Magnolia, MA 01930
October 20, 21, 22
See complete schedule for open hours.
Consigners: Save time and prepare your items beforehand at home, and take advantage of our curbside drop-off service. Learn how...
Shoppers: Cash and local checks only.
Questions?
E-mail: info@childrensdropandshop.com
Location:
Iron Rail Cape Ann Gymnastics Center8 Kondelin Rd.Magnolia, MA 01930
October 20, 21, 22
See complete schedule for open hours.
Consigners: Save time and prepare your items beforehand at home, and take advantage of our curbside drop-off service. Learn how...
Shoppers: Cash and local checks only.
Questions?
E-mail: info@childrensdropandshop.com
Thursday, October 18, 2007
Halloween Costumes!!!
I have a supply of Halloween costumes in the office! If you need one (or more) let me know!
Carla
National Adoption Day!!
National Adoption Day is November 16th!
Essex County Juvenile Court will be participating again!
Essex County Juvenile Court will be participating again!
Openings at Treehouse
If you want a copy of the flyer, let me know and I will send to you, Carla
The Treehouse community in Easthampton currently has a three bedroom home
available for a qualified family who would be interested in being part of this
intergenerational, supportive community. The Treehouse community is dedicated to
promoting permanency for children who have been in foster care, and promoting
opportunities for vital aging and community living. Qualified families include those
who have adopted or are in the process of adopting children from foster care;
guardianship and kinship families; and grandparents raising grandchildren.
The current available home is a market rate home with a monthly rent of $1,036.
For interested seniors, Treehouse maintains a wait list and welcomes adults aged 55
and older, who would like to consider being part of the community, as well as families.
For more information, please contact Kerry Homstead, Community Facilitator,
at (413)527-7966 or Deserie Shaver, Property Manager at (413)527-0836.
LBGT support group
LGBT Adoptive & Foster Parenting Group
The Home for Little Wanderers is excited to announce that in November we will be starting a free monthly parenting group for lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender (LGBT) foster and adoptive parents and a concurrent group for the children of participating parents.
Are you are interested in having a group of peers with whom you could talk about issues that affect you and your family including:
* finding LGBT-friendly medical, mental health & educational providers,
* integrating your children's birth family (or lack thereof) into your family,
* ensuring your children's schools are inclusive of foster/adoptive family structures and LGBT family constellations,
* helping your kids respond to homophobia?
Facilitators Rosemary Broadbent and Colby Berger encourage you to bring ideas for any topics or questions that the group wants to address so as to tailor the structure of our sessions to the needs of the participants. We will ask that participants make a commitment to regularly attend meetings in order to create a cohesive group.
What's even better, we'll also be offering a concurrent group for your children to talk about many of the issues that they might encounter in school, with peers, extended family, etc. (read: your participation in the parenting group is not contingent on finding a babysitter - bring your kids and they'll have fun and learn with peers who also have LGBT parents)! The youth group will be lead by a social worker who has experience working in the LGBT community. We will also provide childcare for the youngest kids who aren't yet able to participate in the youth group.
Details of the meetings:
Who: LGBT foster and adoptive parents and your kids
What: Monthly parenting group with concurrent youth group & child care + dinner
When: The 2nd Thursday of every month from 6-7:30pm. First meeting is November 8th
Where: The Home for Little Wanderers site in Jamaica Plain - 161 South Huntington Avenue
*******(free parking!)*******
Why: LGBT Foster and Adoptive parents often wish they had a place to connect with other folks in the community in order to share resources, get support, socialize (and have the benefit of dinner plus free childcare!)
NOTE: The first meeting on November 8th will be PARENTS ONLY. We will give you a chance to meet the professional facilitators who will be running each group and providing childcare, but we will have an adults only session the first month in order to talk about the structure of the groups and elicit your input. Childcare and the youth group will begin at the following monthly meeting on December 13th.
Please confirm your interest in participating by October 22nd to Rosemary Broadbent: rbroadbent@thehome.org <mailto:rbroadbent@thehome.org> or call 617.264.5370 and let us know how many parents to expect from your family on 11/8 and the names & ages of your child(ren) so that we may begin planning for our youth group's first meeting on 12/13.
Tuesday, September 18, 2007
Topsfield Fair Discounts
The fair dates are:
Sept 28th - October 8th.
Admission tickets are $7. (normally $10 weekeday and $12 weekend)
Rides 10 RIDES for $15.00. This is $1.50 per ride and a HUGE savings over buying the tickets at the fair.
Children under 8 are free.
Please do not wait until the last minute. I must turn all money in on Sept. 24th. I will not run to the fair 3-4 times like I have done every year at the last minute. Make Sure you let me know what you want by Sept 20th. I don't care who you share this with (friends, clients etc) as long as the order in time.
Tuesday, August 21, 2007
interesting article
THis was an article foster parent Robert Choo found in the NY times. I was amazed to see it was here in MA! cool!
Creating a Village to Foster a Child
James Estrin/The New York Times
By PAM BELLUCK
Published: August 16, 2007
EASTHAMPTON, Mass.
AS a psychotherapist, Wendy Gannett thought she was well equipped to adopt children from the foster care system. “I worked with troubled kids and I saw the horrors,” she said. “I knew firsthand how trying it was.”
But two years ago when she took in a 7-year-old boy named Alex, things quickly got away from her. He had been sexually abused and deprived of food, would turn defiant and even violent, and was so afraid of starving that Ms. Gannett let him sleep with his lunchbox. After a few months his younger sisters, Tanisha and Meraliz, joined them because Ms. Gannett said Alex “wasn’t going to be whole without them.”
Caring for all three made Ms. Gannett feel completely overwhelmed, she said. She quit her job to focus on the children and is living on food stamps and payments from the foster care system. Her friends “freaked out — they couldn’t handle the intensity of the kids,” she said. “I started going to church suppers where I said, I have these three kids. Who will help me?”
Then, last December, Ms. Gannett, 40, moved the family from their home in nearby Northampton, Mass., to an unusual community here called Treehouse. Opened in June of 2006, it was designed to bring together families like hers with each other and with older adults who would act, in the words of its founder, Judy Cockerton, as “honorary grandparents.” Soon, Rosa Young, 63, who had just arrived from Michigan, and Alan Spanier, a 73-year-old former Manhattanite, were babysitting for the children and picking them up from school. And Anna Kirwan, 58, from Sunderland, Mass., was helping out in the morning.
Treehouse is a planned intergenerational community, created in the hope that a close-knit support network can prevent children from bouncing from one foster home to another and give them tools to succeed. So far, there are few such communities. But the concept, pioneered in 1994 by Hope Meadows, at a former military base in Rantoul, Ill., is catching on. Hope Meadows plans to replicate in about 18 states, with the help of $7.7 million from the W. K. Kellogg Foundation, said Ted Chen, a program director for the foundation. Other nonprofit organizations are planning similar projects in California, Connecticut and North Carolina.
“It seems to have the capacity of working a lot better than a caseworker visiting two times a month,” said Tom Berkshire, a former chief of staff for the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services, who observed Hope Meadows closely. “The issues that foster kids have — this deals with a lot of them. The issue of graduating out of the system at 18, the issue of having role models to follow, the issue of ‘I know where I belong.’ ”
Ms. Cockerton believes the model may also have more widespread effects. “We’re really trying to inspire the nation to think very differently about the 800,000 children in foster care,” she said. It also aims to allow older adults to remain purposeful and avoid the isolation of old age.
Not that Treehouse is a utopia. Early tension with the local school system has not completely dissipated. One child left because things did not work out with a foster family, and not all the older residents have assumed the grandparent role. Still, Harry Spence, who until last May was commissioner of the state’s Department of Social Services, said Treehouse, which has a waiting list of 45 older adults and 15 families, is a “crucial experiment” that could also generate ideas about how to help foster children in conventional neighborhoods.
Those ideas could include Treehouse’s animal therapy and gardening programs, or its methods of helping parents make decisions, said Sarah Greenblatt, director of the Casey Center for Effective Child Welfare Practice, a Treehouse consultant.
Ms. Cockerton, 56, a former teacher and toy shop owner, said the project was inspired by her experience of adopting a child from foster care in 1999. Foster children and adoptive families she met felt stigmatized or “invisible,” she said, because people viewed the children as damaged.
Treehouse, a $15.9 million project, was built on a meadow near Springfield and Holyoke, two cities with large populations of foster children. Ms. Cockerton’s nonprofit Treehouse Foundation and the developer, Beacon Communities Development, got help from federal and state tax credits, said Pamela Goodman, president of Beacon Communities. The community’s 12 family homes and 48 homes for “elders,” as older residents are called — a ratio that Treehouse considered workable — are arranged in clusters, designed to resemble “dollhouses with their entries turned slightly so that every person who leaves their home has the opportunity to engage with someone,” Ms. Cockerton said.
The residents — currently 52 elders and 18 parents with 34 children — have diverse motivations for being here. Carmen Hickley, 46, said she came for safety, to escape “the man I married who was starting to mess with one of my children.” She has three biological children and four children who adopted after they were removed in 1998 from a home in which one boy was burned, tied up and had two teeth removed with pliers. In their Springfield neighborhood, she said, the children “weren’t allowed to ride their bicycles where I couldn’t see them, but now they can.”
Pam Lumpkin, 35, who has two biological children and a 12-year-old foster daughter, chose Treehouse because in her previous neighborhoods “there weren’t any other foster kids. Neighbors were always worried about how they were going to behave and whether they were going to break into their house.”
And Mary and Jack D’Amato wanted help raising Selena, 14, and Sarah, 12, sisters who were each previously in 24 different foster homes. “We’ve had crisis intervention teams in our house, we’ve been in family therapy,” said Ms. D’Amato, who is 48.
“Our hearts just went out to these kids,” said Mr. D’Amato, 53. “We couldn’t believe that they had been through so much abuse. But we realized we were only two people and we need to work as many.”
Since arriving in April, they have encountered “a new set of problems and a new set of joys,” said Mr. D’Amato. The girls have made new friendships, he said, “but with that came, how do they behave in those friendships? But the kids are happier with these kinds of challenges.”
Some residents may have been attracted by the income-based rents, which range from $511 (the lowest rent for a one-bedroom) to $1,015 (the highest rate for a 5-bedroom). Donna Robinson, 60, said she wanted to leave her “mold-infested rat hole” in Huntington, Mass.
But Mr. Spanier, a retired New York photographer who teaches the children photography and kite-flying, said he came to be involved in something positive. Ms. Young was drawn to the idea of “being extended family for foster families.”
Still, living in such a closely intertwined community and merging generations from varied backgrounds is “not an easy thing to do,” said Gary Anderson, dean of Michigan State University’s school of social work.
Indeed, Treehouse has had its share of disappointments in its first year. To gain support of Easthampton residents and ease the impact on local schools of children likely to need extra help, Treehouse financed several school programs, including after-school activities and a writer-in-residence. But just as the community was opening, Treehouse announced that money had run out.
“We discovered their word didn’t mean what we thought it did,” said Deborah N. Carter, the Easthampton schools superintendent. “It jaundices your view a little bit.”
Ms. Cockerton said she felt “such shame” about the situation.
In January, Edgar L. Selavka, a foster parent and preschool teacher, was arrested on charges of possessing child pornography. There was no evidence that children at Treehouse were involved, but Mr. Selavka and his wife, with a 7-year-old daughter and a 3-year-old foster daughter, were asked to leave, and residents were shaken.
Several residents said Treehouse’s straightforward handling of the incident bolstered the community. Still, Robin Weingarten, Treehouse’s child and family program coordinator, said some residents may “feel set back in their ability to trust.”
One child’s departure in June underscored the fragility of foster family relationships, even with community support.
And not all elders have volunteered to help children or been successful in developing relationships with them. While Hope Meadows, the Illinois community, requires its older residents to volunteer at least six hours a week (and requires that one parent stay home with the children, paying them a salary to do so), Treehouse rejected the idea of similar requirements, said Kerry Homstead, the community facilitator, because “I don’t think most people are attracted to something because they have to do it.”
“We have some folks who jump right in,” Ms. Cockerton said. “We have a group of people who dip in and out. Then we have other people who are still standing behind their curtains and peeking out because they’re not sure how to behave.” Elizabeth Poudrier, 73, said, “When I first got here, I shied away. Then it dawned on me that we were all in the same boat, and I came out of that shell.”
Elders get training in using restraint when hugging or touching abused children, and in “how not to take children’s behavior personally,” Ms. Homstead said. “Nobody is being matched or encouraged to hook up with children until we have some sense of readiness.”
Bringing together children with traumatic backgrounds has advantages. Nathan Flannery, 13, one of four adopted siblings, is not alone in finding it easy to get along with some children, “because they’ve been through some of the same things.” But it can also create combustible combinations. “There are certain kids you don’t want to spend too much time together,” said Carolyn Burns, the executive director of Berkshire Children and Families, the social service agency here. “And people always have to be vigilant because something can trigger some reaction.”
Recently Sarah, one of the D’Amatos’ foster daughters, kicked Ms. Lumpkin’s 12-year-old son, Kenny, at the community center. She stormed off, and someone called Ms. D’Amato, who tried, with other mothers, to persuade Sarah to apologize.
“Even if somebody makes you mad, you can’t kick or hit them,” Ms. Lumpkin said.
“It was an accident,” Sarah said.
“No, it wasn’t,” Ms. Lumpkin said.
Ms. Hickley added: “You want to have a lot of friends, you got to have a good attitude.”
Despite such episodes, Ms. D’Amato said, Sarah is “healing in little ways,” spending more time on activities like drawing pictures.
“I like it here,” Sarah said. “We have a community." Meaningful connections have clearly been made.
Ms. Kirwan teaches writing workshops, where both Selena and Ms. D’Amato, have written cathartic stories about violence and abuse. The D’Amato girls serve elders breakfast at a Saturday cafe here, and call Ms. Poudrier “Nana.” Ms. Young and Mr. Spanier calm Ms. Gannett’s children with singing and conversation.
Ryan Flannery, 9, Nathan’s brother, withdrew after moving here, said his mother, Christine, 43. The Flannerys, who have two biological children (a third died as a toddler), moved to Treehouse because they wanted their children “to have more connections,” Ms. Flannery said. But it turned out that there were more preteens and teens than children Ryan’s age. And some of the programs they were expecting were not yet in place.
“It just seemed like nothing worked,” said Ms. Flannery, who began home-schooling Ryan.
But Ryan liked visiting Ms. Kirwan’s tchotchke-filled home and letting her cats climb on him. And Ms. Robinson invited him to garden, paint birdhouses and read to her dog. (Ryan has a little trouble reading, Ms. Robinson explained, “and dogs are nonjudgmental.”)
For her part, Ms. Robinson said, “Ryan brings out the kid in me. I’m over there with a butterfly net, hobbling around with a cane.”
“This is a different world,” she said. “There’s life here.”
Creating a Village to Foster a Child
James Estrin/The New York Times
By PAM BELLUCK
Published: August 16, 2007
EASTHAMPTON, Mass.
AS a psychotherapist, Wendy Gannett thought she was well equipped to adopt children from the foster care system. “I worked with troubled kids and I saw the horrors,” she said. “I knew firsthand how trying it was.”
But two years ago when she took in a 7-year-old boy named Alex, things quickly got away from her. He had been sexually abused and deprived of food, would turn defiant and even violent, and was so afraid of starving that Ms. Gannett let him sleep with his lunchbox. After a few months his younger sisters, Tanisha and Meraliz, joined them because Ms. Gannett said Alex “wasn’t going to be whole without them.”
Caring for all three made Ms. Gannett feel completely overwhelmed, she said. She quit her job to focus on the children and is living on food stamps and payments from the foster care system. Her friends “freaked out — they couldn’t handle the intensity of the kids,” she said. “I started going to church suppers where I said, I have these three kids. Who will help me?”
Then, last December, Ms. Gannett, 40, moved the family from their home in nearby Northampton, Mass., to an unusual community here called Treehouse. Opened in June of 2006, it was designed to bring together families like hers with each other and with older adults who would act, in the words of its founder, Judy Cockerton, as “honorary grandparents.” Soon, Rosa Young, 63, who had just arrived from Michigan, and Alan Spanier, a 73-year-old former Manhattanite, were babysitting for the children and picking them up from school. And Anna Kirwan, 58, from Sunderland, Mass., was helping out in the morning.
Treehouse is a planned intergenerational community, created in the hope that a close-knit support network can prevent children from bouncing from one foster home to another and give them tools to succeed. So far, there are few such communities. But the concept, pioneered in 1994 by Hope Meadows, at a former military base in Rantoul, Ill., is catching on. Hope Meadows plans to replicate in about 18 states, with the help of $7.7 million from the W. K. Kellogg Foundation, said Ted Chen, a program director for the foundation. Other nonprofit organizations are planning similar projects in California, Connecticut and North Carolina.
“It seems to have the capacity of working a lot better than a caseworker visiting two times a month,” said Tom Berkshire, a former chief of staff for the Illinois Department of Children and Family Services, who observed Hope Meadows closely. “The issues that foster kids have — this deals with a lot of them. The issue of graduating out of the system at 18, the issue of having role models to follow, the issue of ‘I know where I belong.’ ”
Ms. Cockerton believes the model may also have more widespread effects. “We’re really trying to inspire the nation to think very differently about the 800,000 children in foster care,” she said. It also aims to allow older adults to remain purposeful and avoid the isolation of old age.
Not that Treehouse is a utopia. Early tension with the local school system has not completely dissipated. One child left because things did not work out with a foster family, and not all the older residents have assumed the grandparent role. Still, Harry Spence, who until last May was commissioner of the state’s Department of Social Services, said Treehouse, which has a waiting list of 45 older adults and 15 families, is a “crucial experiment” that could also generate ideas about how to help foster children in conventional neighborhoods.
Those ideas could include Treehouse’s animal therapy and gardening programs, or its methods of helping parents make decisions, said Sarah Greenblatt, director of the Casey Center for Effective Child Welfare Practice, a Treehouse consultant.
Ms. Cockerton, 56, a former teacher and toy shop owner, said the project was inspired by her experience of adopting a child from foster care in 1999. Foster children and adoptive families she met felt stigmatized or “invisible,” she said, because people viewed the children as damaged.
Treehouse, a $15.9 million project, was built on a meadow near Springfield and Holyoke, two cities with large populations of foster children. Ms. Cockerton’s nonprofit Treehouse Foundation and the developer, Beacon Communities Development, got help from federal and state tax credits, said Pamela Goodman, president of Beacon Communities. The community’s 12 family homes and 48 homes for “elders,” as older residents are called — a ratio that Treehouse considered workable — are arranged in clusters, designed to resemble “dollhouses with their entries turned slightly so that every person who leaves their home has the opportunity to engage with someone,” Ms. Cockerton said.
The residents — currently 52 elders and 18 parents with 34 children — have diverse motivations for being here. Carmen Hickley, 46, said she came for safety, to escape “the man I married who was starting to mess with one of my children.” She has three biological children and four children who adopted after they were removed in 1998 from a home in which one boy was burned, tied up and had two teeth removed with pliers. In their Springfield neighborhood, she said, the children “weren’t allowed to ride their bicycles where I couldn’t see them, but now they can.”
Pam Lumpkin, 35, who has two biological children and a 12-year-old foster daughter, chose Treehouse because in her previous neighborhoods “there weren’t any other foster kids. Neighbors were always worried about how they were going to behave and whether they were going to break into their house.”
And Mary and Jack D’Amato wanted help raising Selena, 14, and Sarah, 12, sisters who were each previously in 24 different foster homes. “We’ve had crisis intervention teams in our house, we’ve been in family therapy,” said Ms. D’Amato, who is 48.
“Our hearts just went out to these kids,” said Mr. D’Amato, 53. “We couldn’t believe that they had been through so much abuse. But we realized we were only two people and we need to work as many.”
Since arriving in April, they have encountered “a new set of problems and a new set of joys,” said Mr. D’Amato. The girls have made new friendships, he said, “but with that came, how do they behave in those friendships? But the kids are happier with these kinds of challenges.”
Some residents may have been attracted by the income-based rents, which range from $511 (the lowest rent for a one-bedroom) to $1,015 (the highest rate for a 5-bedroom). Donna Robinson, 60, said she wanted to leave her “mold-infested rat hole” in Huntington, Mass.
But Mr. Spanier, a retired New York photographer who teaches the children photography and kite-flying, said he came to be involved in something positive. Ms. Young was drawn to the idea of “being extended family for foster families.”
Still, living in such a closely intertwined community and merging generations from varied backgrounds is “not an easy thing to do,” said Gary Anderson, dean of Michigan State University’s school of social work.
Indeed, Treehouse has had its share of disappointments in its first year. To gain support of Easthampton residents and ease the impact on local schools of children likely to need extra help, Treehouse financed several school programs, including after-school activities and a writer-in-residence. But just as the community was opening, Treehouse announced that money had run out.
“We discovered their word didn’t mean what we thought it did,” said Deborah N. Carter, the Easthampton schools superintendent. “It jaundices your view a little bit.”
Ms. Cockerton said she felt “such shame” about the situation.
In January, Edgar L. Selavka, a foster parent and preschool teacher, was arrested on charges of possessing child pornography. There was no evidence that children at Treehouse were involved, but Mr. Selavka and his wife, with a 7-year-old daughter and a 3-year-old foster daughter, were asked to leave, and residents were shaken.
Several residents said Treehouse’s straightforward handling of the incident bolstered the community. Still, Robin Weingarten, Treehouse’s child and family program coordinator, said some residents may “feel set back in their ability to trust.”
One child’s departure in June underscored the fragility of foster family relationships, even with community support.
And not all elders have volunteered to help children or been successful in developing relationships with them. While Hope Meadows, the Illinois community, requires its older residents to volunteer at least six hours a week (and requires that one parent stay home with the children, paying them a salary to do so), Treehouse rejected the idea of similar requirements, said Kerry Homstead, the community facilitator, because “I don’t think most people are attracted to something because they have to do it.”
“We have some folks who jump right in,” Ms. Cockerton said. “We have a group of people who dip in and out. Then we have other people who are still standing behind their curtains and peeking out because they’re not sure how to behave.” Elizabeth Poudrier, 73, said, “When I first got here, I shied away. Then it dawned on me that we were all in the same boat, and I came out of that shell.”
Elders get training in using restraint when hugging or touching abused children, and in “how not to take children’s behavior personally,” Ms. Homstead said. “Nobody is being matched or encouraged to hook up with children until we have some sense of readiness.”
Bringing together children with traumatic backgrounds has advantages. Nathan Flannery, 13, one of four adopted siblings, is not alone in finding it easy to get along with some children, “because they’ve been through some of the same things.” But it can also create combustible combinations. “There are certain kids you don’t want to spend too much time together,” said Carolyn Burns, the executive director of Berkshire Children and Families, the social service agency here. “And people always have to be vigilant because something can trigger some reaction.”
Recently Sarah, one of the D’Amatos’ foster daughters, kicked Ms. Lumpkin’s 12-year-old son, Kenny, at the community center. She stormed off, and someone called Ms. D’Amato, who tried, with other mothers, to persuade Sarah to apologize.
“Even if somebody makes you mad, you can’t kick or hit them,” Ms. Lumpkin said.
“It was an accident,” Sarah said.
“No, it wasn’t,” Ms. Lumpkin said.
Ms. Hickley added: “You want to have a lot of friends, you got to have a good attitude.”
Despite such episodes, Ms. D’Amato said, Sarah is “healing in little ways,” spending more time on activities like drawing pictures.
“I like it here,” Sarah said. “We have a community." Meaningful connections have clearly been made.
Ms. Kirwan teaches writing workshops, where both Selena and Ms. D’Amato, have written cathartic stories about violence and abuse. The D’Amato girls serve elders breakfast at a Saturday cafe here, and call Ms. Poudrier “Nana.” Ms. Young and Mr. Spanier calm Ms. Gannett’s children with singing and conversation.
Ryan Flannery, 9, Nathan’s brother, withdrew after moving here, said his mother, Christine, 43. The Flannerys, who have two biological children (a third died as a toddler), moved to Treehouse because they wanted their children “to have more connections,” Ms. Flannery said. But it turned out that there were more preteens and teens than children Ryan’s age. And some of the programs they were expecting were not yet in place.
“It just seemed like nothing worked,” said Ms. Flannery, who began home-schooling Ryan.
But Ryan liked visiting Ms. Kirwan’s tchotchke-filled home and letting her cats climb on him. And Ms. Robinson invited him to garden, paint birdhouses and read to her dog. (Ryan has a little trouble reading, Ms. Robinson explained, “and dogs are nonjudgmental.”)
For her part, Ms. Robinson said, “Ryan brings out the kid in me. I’m over there with a butterfly net, hobbling around with a cane.”
“This is a different world,” she said. “There’s life here.”
Sunday, August 19, 2007
old article
Kids Care Club: Membership Has Its RewardsHamilton-Wenham Chronicle, December 20, 2001
Each year, parents in Hamilton and Wenham sign up their children for a smattering of after-school activities. A dose of sports can be combined with a few hours of drama and, depending on one's schedule, maybe a musical instrument can be squeezed in.
Most parents have assumed lessons that fostered empathy, charity and generosity were only offered on Sunday mornings. For nearly five years, however, the Kids Care Club has been meeting, after hours, at the Cutler Elementary School, helping children and their families experience the joy of reaching out to others.
Each month, between 20-50 children meet to plan and carry out a different charitable project. Fleece jackets have been collected and shipped to Nepal. Lunch snacks and drinks have been donated to Acord Food Pantry. Hats have been decorated and delivered to children at the Dana-Faber Cancer Institute.
This month, in conjunction with a grant from Sears and the Points of Light Foundation, children in the Kids Care Club made holiday hope chests for children in the care of the state's Department of Social Services (DSS). The grant from Sears allowed each child to buy $15 worth of merchandise at Sears, for a child of a given age and gender.
After school, children decorated their gift-filled boxes, each of which will be given to a child either in foster care or under the DSS supervision. The holiday hope chests will supplement the one gift each of these children receives from the DSS.
"Many of these children move frequently from one placement to another, so the idea of a hope chest is that it is a fancy decorated box that they'll be able to keep their possessions in when they go from place to place," said Kids Care Club organizer Dolly McIlvaine.
"We were asked not to forget the teenage population, [youngsters who] often get overlooked," said McIlvaine, who noted some of the boxes will go to teenagers in DSS care.
Carla King, foster parent recruiter for the Salem office of the Department of Social Services, is thrilled the Kids Care Club thought of the children in social services.
"Most kids in foster care come with nothing, so the holiday hope chest gives them something to call their own as they move into that foster home," explained King. "A lot of times, all they have are the clothes on their back," she added.
Holiday hope chests will also go to children in need who are still living with their parents.
"For a child in need, this is going to provide an extra gift they can put under the tree," said King.
King's office serves more than 300 foster children and 700 children at home but in need, all in the Essex County region.
"I'm so happy that the kids thought of our kids. And it is very much appreciated." King assured.
Debbie Spaide, a mother of five in Connecticut, initiated the Kids Care Club. Spaide and her husband often planned community service projects for their children and their friends. She eventually formalized the events and created a club around them. In early 1996, Kathy Mullin, a Cutler school parent, suggested the idea might work at her child's school.
Caption: Second-graders Joy Santarelli, front, and Rachel Landis prepare holiday hope chests at the Kids Care Club. "Mullin felt very strongly that even young children could reach out and impact others in need beyond their own little circle," said McIlvaine. Less than a year later, the Cutler-based club welcomed its first members.
Each year, as word has spread, the Kids Care Club's numbers grow.
"Word is getting out about what we do," said McIlvaine.
Not all children partake in all projects; McIlvaine asks children to choose projects themselves. Parents are welcome and younger siblings are often included.
Each fall, club members rake leaves for local seniors.
"Seniors so enjoy seeing the little kids out there. And we always try to leave the yard looking better than we arrived," said McIlvaine. Other projects have included planting flowers at Patton Park, singing at nursing homes and sponsoring a coin drive for an elementary school located near the World Trade Center.
Many of the projects are coordinated with items collected from the Cutler student body at large, through the school's so-called "giving tree." A wooden "tree" with bins at its base for collecting items, it stands prominently in the Cutler school lobby. Each month, notices go out to students and their families, explaining the next collection. The tree has collected school supplies for HAWC, toiletries for homeless shelters and books for the North Shore Children's Hospital's "Reach Out and Read" program.
For one month, baby items were collected at the giving tree. Club members, with the help of an art teacher and a Spanish teacher, wrote notes and designed tote bags that were sent to new mothers in an impoverished area of New Mexico.
"That whole experience was just phenomenal," said McIlvaine. "The children learned about the poverty, where these young moms were coming home to cardboard shacks with absolutely no supplies for infants,"McIlvaine thinks the lessons learned in this after-school program are life lessons.
"Children in our community can be sheltered from the harsh realities of what is out there," said McIlvaine, who is also the school adjustment counselor. "That protection is okay, but I feel strongly that it's beneficial for the children to develop an understanding that there are people and children in totally different circumstances than themselves."
"And by a small act of kindness," she concluded, "they can truly have an impact on somebody else's life."
Each year, parents in Hamilton and Wenham sign up their children for a smattering of after-school activities. A dose of sports can be combined with a few hours of drama and, depending on one's schedule, maybe a musical instrument can be squeezed in.
Most parents have assumed lessons that fostered empathy, charity and generosity were only offered on Sunday mornings. For nearly five years, however, the Kids Care Club has been meeting, after hours, at the Cutler Elementary School, helping children and their families experience the joy of reaching out to others.
Each month, between 20-50 children meet to plan and carry out a different charitable project. Fleece jackets have been collected and shipped to Nepal. Lunch snacks and drinks have been donated to Acord Food Pantry. Hats have been decorated and delivered to children at the Dana-Faber Cancer Institute.
This month, in conjunction with a grant from Sears and the Points of Light Foundation, children in the Kids Care Club made holiday hope chests for children in the care of the state's Department of Social Services (DSS). The grant from Sears allowed each child to buy $15 worth of merchandise at Sears, for a child of a given age and gender.
After school, children decorated their gift-filled boxes, each of which will be given to a child either in foster care or under the DSS supervision. The holiday hope chests will supplement the one gift each of these children receives from the DSS.
"Many of these children move frequently from one placement to another, so the idea of a hope chest is that it is a fancy decorated box that they'll be able to keep their possessions in when they go from place to place," said Kids Care Club organizer Dolly McIlvaine.
"We were asked not to forget the teenage population, [youngsters who] often get overlooked," said McIlvaine, who noted some of the boxes will go to teenagers in DSS care.
Carla King, foster parent recruiter for the Salem office of the Department of Social Services, is thrilled the Kids Care Club thought of the children in social services.
"Most kids in foster care come with nothing, so the holiday hope chest gives them something to call their own as they move into that foster home," explained King. "A lot of times, all they have are the clothes on their back," she added.
Holiday hope chests will also go to children in need who are still living with their parents.
"For a child in need, this is going to provide an extra gift they can put under the tree," said King.
King's office serves more than 300 foster children and 700 children at home but in need, all in the Essex County region.
"I'm so happy that the kids thought of our kids. And it is very much appreciated." King assured.
Debbie Spaide, a mother of five in Connecticut, initiated the Kids Care Club. Spaide and her husband often planned community service projects for their children and their friends. She eventually formalized the events and created a club around them. In early 1996, Kathy Mullin, a Cutler school parent, suggested the idea might work at her child's school.
Caption: Second-graders Joy Santarelli, front, and Rachel Landis prepare holiday hope chests at the Kids Care Club. "Mullin felt very strongly that even young children could reach out and impact others in need beyond their own little circle," said McIlvaine. Less than a year later, the Cutler-based club welcomed its first members.
Each year, as word has spread, the Kids Care Club's numbers grow.
"Word is getting out about what we do," said McIlvaine.
Not all children partake in all projects; McIlvaine asks children to choose projects themselves. Parents are welcome and younger siblings are often included.
Each fall, club members rake leaves for local seniors.
"Seniors so enjoy seeing the little kids out there. And we always try to leave the yard looking better than we arrived," said McIlvaine. Other projects have included planting flowers at Patton Park, singing at nursing homes and sponsoring a coin drive for an elementary school located near the World Trade Center.
Many of the projects are coordinated with items collected from the Cutler student body at large, through the school's so-called "giving tree." A wooden "tree" with bins at its base for collecting items, it stands prominently in the Cutler school lobby. Each month, notices go out to students and their families, explaining the next collection. The tree has collected school supplies for HAWC, toiletries for homeless shelters and books for the North Shore Children's Hospital's "Reach Out and Read" program.
For one month, baby items were collected at the giving tree. Club members, with the help of an art teacher and a Spanish teacher, wrote notes and designed tote bags that were sent to new mothers in an impoverished area of New Mexico.
"That whole experience was just phenomenal," said McIlvaine. "The children learned about the poverty, where these young moms were coming home to cardboard shacks with absolutely no supplies for infants,"McIlvaine thinks the lessons learned in this after-school program are life lessons.
"Children in our community can be sheltered from the harsh realities of what is out there," said McIlvaine, who is also the school adjustment counselor. "That protection is okay, but I feel strongly that it's beneficial for the children to develop an understanding that there are people and children in totally different circumstances than themselves."
"And by a small act of kindness," she concluded, "they can truly have an impact on somebody else's life."
Old article I found online
Published: February 19, 2007 12:00 am
Small church makes a big difference for foster childrenBy Amanda McGregor , Staff writerSalem News
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SALEM - First Universalist is a small parish with a huge heart.Though the church has fewer than 50 active members, those members include eight families who provide foster care and/or have adopted children. For them, church is more than a place of worship - it has become a support group where parents share joys and tribulations and foster and adopted children are the norm, not the exception."It's very normalizing and that's incredibly important to them," said Jan Costa, who has been a foster mother for eight years and recently adopted a 2-year-old son."It's a gift," Kathleen Riley said of the church community. She and her husband, Steve Duguay, adopted their daughter Dora, 7, one year ago. "And Dora is our gift," Steve said.A service scheduled for Sunday, Feb. 25, will honor the unique community at the First Universalist Society of Salem. Families will share their experiences of adoption and foster care, and one girl plans to show her adoption scrapbook."People always have a very interesting reaction to our story," Joseph Buchanan of Salem said. "They say, 'You did what?'"Joseph and Agnes Buchanan, along with their son Ryan, 14, traveled to Kazakhstan for a month last spring to adopt Tanya, now 11."When you tell your story, some people just kind of melt," Agnes said. "They say, 'That's something I've been dreaming of doing.'"They hope the service will open other people's hearts, too.Ready for anythingLast Sunday, four toddlers roamed a nursery strewn with books and toys in the red brick, 1808 church off Bridge Street. Two of the babies were foster children; Anthony, nearly 3, was adopted by Jan Costa; and the fourth child's biological parents are members of the church."Foster children have a story they come with to the new family," said the Rev. Bill Robinson, interim minister at First Universalist. He and his wife are also adoptive parents."Some of the stories we hear are hard to believe - that things like this happen to such nice little kids," Robinson said. "So it's a different kind of an experience as a parent. I see (parishioners) talking to each other about their situations and I have conversations with them as well."
The families at First Universalist say they help each other through the paper trails, the foster care certification process, or just caring for children from various backgrounds."It is a bit of a Zen way of being," foster parent Joyce Prior of Beverly said, "because you don't know (what child will come into your life).""I keep clothing in my house for every age: zero to 5 years old," Christine DiSaia said."And if there's no baby in the crib, you just use it for storage," Costa said.The children (most of whom can't be named in the newspaper, for privacy reasons) said they don't necessarily talk about their histories with each other in Sunday school, but they find comfort in being together."When I first walked in and there were other foster kids here, it practically blew me away," Costa said. "I could bring my kids to a church where they were normal.""There is so much support to be found here," Prior said. She and her wife, Donna Blume, have provided foster care for nearly six years. "For me, it's spiritual in the sense of how we all make families in different ways. In a tiny little church, it's really quite remarkable."So many storiesDora, 7, had four families before she found her permanent home in Salem with Riley and Duguay. Tanya, 11, lived in an orphanage in Kazakhstan when the Buchanans found her nearly two years ago through an exchange program they read about in The Salem News. Another family at the church adopted two girls from Guatemala.Costa, a nurse who has three grown children, became a foster parent after her husband died of cancer. Over the years, around 100 children have come into her Salem home. Last year, baby Anthony arrived - and he never left."I just said, 'I can't let this one go,'" Costa said. "It will be a real pleasure to watch this child grow."Blume and Prior have been foster mothers to a teenage daughter for the last year and a half and Blume enjoys helping out at the church nursery."She's very interested in the story of each child, because she can relate," Prior said.Christine and Gene DiSaia of Lynn are foster parents to a 21-month-old boy and regularly provide short-term foster care. They take hot line cases from the state Department of Social Services, which means they can receive calls anytime, day or night, to take children into their home.
"People are just kind of used to it now," said Christine DiSaia, an attorney certified to practice in child welfare cases. "They'll say, 'Oh, Christine is showing up with three children today.'"Need for homesOn the North Shore and Cape Ann alone, there are roughly 375 foster children right now. In the same area, there are only 140 families who provide foster care, according to Carla King, who is the foster parent recruiter for the area office of the Department of Social Services."There's a huge need for foster homes," she said.King said her office now has a group of three sisters for whom they can't find a home. And she said adolescent and teenage foster children often have to be placed in a group home, which is a level of service they don't need. But there is no other choice when there aren't families to take them.The members of First Universalist in Salem invited King to attend the Feb. 25 service, where she plans to talk with people interested in foster care and adoption."I love working with foster families," said King, who has worked for DSS for more than a decade. "They are just the most amazing people - so generous and selfless. I love doing for them, because they do so much for others."For more information on foster care and adoption, call Carla King at the Department of Social Services at 978-825-3862.If you goWhat: "Growing Families Through Foster Care and Adoption," a special serviceWhere: First Universalist Society of Salem, 211 Bridge St.When: Sunday, Feb. 25, 10:45 a.m.
Small church makes a big difference for foster childrenBy Amanda McGregor , Staff writerSalem News
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SALEM - First Universalist is a small parish with a huge heart.Though the church has fewer than 50 active members, those members include eight families who provide foster care and/or have adopted children. For them, church is more than a place of worship - it has become a support group where parents share joys and tribulations and foster and adopted children are the norm, not the exception."It's very normalizing and that's incredibly important to them," said Jan Costa, who has been a foster mother for eight years and recently adopted a 2-year-old son."It's a gift," Kathleen Riley said of the church community. She and her husband, Steve Duguay, adopted their daughter Dora, 7, one year ago. "And Dora is our gift," Steve said.A service scheduled for Sunday, Feb. 25, will honor the unique community at the First Universalist Society of Salem. Families will share their experiences of adoption and foster care, and one girl plans to show her adoption scrapbook."People always have a very interesting reaction to our story," Joseph Buchanan of Salem said. "They say, 'You did what?'"Joseph and Agnes Buchanan, along with their son Ryan, 14, traveled to Kazakhstan for a month last spring to adopt Tanya, now 11."When you tell your story, some people just kind of melt," Agnes said. "They say, 'That's something I've been dreaming of doing.'"They hope the service will open other people's hearts, too.Ready for anythingLast Sunday, four toddlers roamed a nursery strewn with books and toys in the red brick, 1808 church off Bridge Street. Two of the babies were foster children; Anthony, nearly 3, was adopted by Jan Costa; and the fourth child's biological parents are members of the church."Foster children have a story they come with to the new family," said the Rev. Bill Robinson, interim minister at First Universalist. He and his wife are also adoptive parents."Some of the stories we hear are hard to believe - that things like this happen to such nice little kids," Robinson said. "So it's a different kind of an experience as a parent. I see (parishioners) talking to each other about their situations and I have conversations with them as well."
The families at First Universalist say they help each other through the paper trails, the foster care certification process, or just caring for children from various backgrounds."It is a bit of a Zen way of being," foster parent Joyce Prior of Beverly said, "because you don't know (what child will come into your life).""I keep clothing in my house for every age: zero to 5 years old," Christine DiSaia said."And if there's no baby in the crib, you just use it for storage," Costa said.The children (most of whom can't be named in the newspaper, for privacy reasons) said they don't necessarily talk about their histories with each other in Sunday school, but they find comfort in being together."When I first walked in and there were other foster kids here, it practically blew me away," Costa said. "I could bring my kids to a church where they were normal.""There is so much support to be found here," Prior said. She and her wife, Donna Blume, have provided foster care for nearly six years. "For me, it's spiritual in the sense of how we all make families in different ways. In a tiny little church, it's really quite remarkable."So many storiesDora, 7, had four families before she found her permanent home in Salem with Riley and Duguay. Tanya, 11, lived in an orphanage in Kazakhstan when the Buchanans found her nearly two years ago through an exchange program they read about in The Salem News. Another family at the church adopted two girls from Guatemala.Costa, a nurse who has three grown children, became a foster parent after her husband died of cancer. Over the years, around 100 children have come into her Salem home. Last year, baby Anthony arrived - and he never left."I just said, 'I can't let this one go,'" Costa said. "It will be a real pleasure to watch this child grow."Blume and Prior have been foster mothers to a teenage daughter for the last year and a half and Blume enjoys helping out at the church nursery."She's very interested in the story of each child, because she can relate," Prior said.Christine and Gene DiSaia of Lynn are foster parents to a 21-month-old boy and regularly provide short-term foster care. They take hot line cases from the state Department of Social Services, which means they can receive calls anytime, day or night, to take children into their home.
"People are just kind of used to it now," said Christine DiSaia, an attorney certified to practice in child welfare cases. "They'll say, 'Oh, Christine is showing up with three children today.'"Need for homesOn the North Shore and Cape Ann alone, there are roughly 375 foster children right now. In the same area, there are only 140 families who provide foster care, according to Carla King, who is the foster parent recruiter for the area office of the Department of Social Services."There's a huge need for foster homes," she said.King said her office now has a group of three sisters for whom they can't find a home. And she said adolescent and teenage foster children often have to be placed in a group home, which is a level of service they don't need. But there is no other choice when there aren't families to take them.The members of First Universalist in Salem invited King to attend the Feb. 25 service, where she plans to talk with people interested in foster care and adoption."I love working with foster families," said King, who has worked for DSS for more than a decade. "They are just the most amazing people - so generous and selfless. I love doing for them, because they do so much for others."For more information on foster care and adoption, call Carla King at the Department of Social Services at 978-825-3862.If you goWhat: "Growing Families Through Foster Care and Adoption," a special serviceWhere: First Universalist Society of Salem, 211 Bridge St.When: Sunday, Feb. 25, 10:45 a.m.
Wednesday, August 1, 2007
Book Signing by Vicotoria Rowell
Star of film and television and author Victoria Rowell to speak at Barnes & Noble Thursday, August 2 at 7:00 pm
Barnes & Noble, in partnership with the Department of Social Service, Cape Cod and Islands Area Office, is pleased to host a book discussion and signing with actress and author, Victoria Rowell on Thursday, August 2 at 7:00 pm.
Victoria Rowell was born a Ward of the State in Portland, Maine, the child of an unmarried Yankee blueblood mother and an unknown black father. She was raised in foster care for 18 years. Her experience in the foster-care system was nothing short of miraculous, thanks to many extraordinary women who stepped forward to love, nurture, guide, teach and challenge her. At the age of eight, she received the Ford Foundation scholarship to the Cambridge School of Ballet, and by age sixteen, she earned scholarships to both the School of American Ballet and the American Ballet Theater of New York.
Her first book, The Women Who Raised Me, is tribute not only to her foster mothers, caretakers, social service workers, friends and mentors, but to the foster system that brought them into her life as well.
Victoria Rowell is a two-time Emmy Award nominee and an eleven-time NAACP Image Award-winning actress. Her professional credits include co-starring opposite Samuel L. Jackson in Home of the Brave, Jim Carrey in Dumb & Dumber, and Eddie Murphy in The Distinguished Gentleman and Eve’s Bayou. She is well known for her roles on Diagnosis: Murder and The Young and the Restless.
Rowell is the founder of the Rowell Foster Children’s Positive Plan, which provides scholarships in the arts and education to foster and adopted youth. She serves as national spokesperson for the Annie E. Casey Foundation/Casey Family Services.
Barnes & Noble Booksellers is located in the Cape Cod Mall, 769 Iyannough Road, Hyannis. For more information, call Barnes & Noble at 508-962-6310. All events are free and open to the public.
Barnes & Noble, in partnership with the Department of Social Service, Cape Cod and Islands Area Office, is pleased to host a book discussion and signing with actress and author, Victoria Rowell on Thursday, August 2 at 7:00 pm.
Victoria Rowell was born a Ward of the State in Portland, Maine, the child of an unmarried Yankee blueblood mother and an unknown black father. She was raised in foster care for 18 years. Her experience in the foster-care system was nothing short of miraculous, thanks to many extraordinary women who stepped forward to love, nurture, guide, teach and challenge her. At the age of eight, she received the Ford Foundation scholarship to the Cambridge School of Ballet, and by age sixteen, she earned scholarships to both the School of American Ballet and the American Ballet Theater of New York.
Her first book, The Women Who Raised Me, is tribute not only to her foster mothers, caretakers, social service workers, friends and mentors, but to the foster system that brought them into her life as well.
Victoria Rowell is a two-time Emmy Award nominee and an eleven-time NAACP Image Award-winning actress. Her professional credits include co-starring opposite Samuel L. Jackson in Home of the Brave, Jim Carrey in Dumb & Dumber, and Eddie Murphy in The Distinguished Gentleman and Eve’s Bayou. She is well known for her roles on Diagnosis: Murder and The Young and the Restless.
Rowell is the founder of the Rowell Foster Children’s Positive Plan, which provides scholarships in the arts and education to foster and adopted youth. She serves as national spokesperson for the Annie E. Casey Foundation/Casey Family Services.
Barnes & Noble Booksellers is located in the Cape Cod Mall, 769 Iyannough Road, Hyannis. For more information, call Barnes & Noble at 508-962-6310. All events are free and open to the public.
Tuesday, July 17, 2007
Bob's Store Coupon
If you want one, let me know!
I will pop in mail. If you are not my home, please reply with address so I don't have to look it up.
Good for 25% of entire purchase July 22- July 28th.
Thanks!
Happy Shopping!
Carla
I will pop in mail. If you are not my home, please reply with address so I don't have to look it up.
Good for 25% of entire purchase July 22- July 28th.
Thanks!
Happy Shopping!
Carla
Support Group
Support Group at Diane Smith's this Thursday.
Training on suicide.
Please call Adele to RSVP 978-825-3800
(I did not want to post info on website)
Training on suicide.
Please call Adele to RSVP 978-825-3800
(I did not want to post info on website)
Saturday, July 14, 2007
Free Movies at AMC Theaters this summer
At AMC theater this summer you can go to AMC theaters at 10AM for a freemovie.Here is a list of movies:Movie Schedule* June 27:Happy Feet <http://www.amctheat res.com/smc/ movies.html>July 4:HOLIDAY, SEE YOU NEXT WEEKJuly 11:Ice Age: The Meltdown <http://www.amctheat res.com/smc/ movies.html#>July 18:Barnyard: The Original PartyAnimals<http://www.amctheat res.com/smc/ movies.html#>July 25:Flushed Away <http://www.amctheat res.com/smc/ movies.html#>August 1:Charlotte's Web <http://www.amctheat res.com/smc/ movies.html#>August 8:Open Season <http://www.amctheat res.com/smc/ movies.html#>August 15:Over the Hedge <http://www.amctheat res.com/smc/ movies.html#>
Wednesday, July 11, 2007
Youth that are going to be Seniors in High School
Hello Everyone,
I need your help in identifying foster youth (in care and custody) who will be seniors in high school next year. I would like to have their names and contact info ( address, number and high school attending). They will be eligible for senior year expenses ($300 towards prom, class dues, senior pics, etc...) The foster youth will need to complete some paperwork, so please let me know if you have any foster youth who will be a senior at High School next year.
Please e-mail Carla at Carla.King@state.ma.us with this needed info. Jen Hubbard will then contact the youth to complete the paperwork.
Thank you for your help!
Jen Hubbard
Adolescent Outreach Worker
I need your help in identifying foster youth (in care and custody) who will be seniors in high school next year. I would like to have their names and contact info ( address, number and high school attending). They will be eligible for senior year expenses ($300 towards prom, class dues, senior pics, etc...) The foster youth will need to complete some paperwork, so please let me know if you have any foster youth who will be a senior at High School next year.
Please e-mail Carla at Carla.King@state.ma.us with this needed info. Jen Hubbard will then contact the youth to complete the paperwork.
Thank you for your help!
Jen Hubbard
Adolescent Outreach Worker
New Foster Families
Welcome new foster parents!
The PATCH family of Peabody
The GARVIN family of Danvers
The REED family of Danvers
The KARCHER family of Rockport
The SAINT LOUIS family of Salem
The GONZALES family of Salem
The O’DONNELL-HOUGH family of Beverly
A new MAPP just graduated in June! Look for more names soon!
The PATCH family of Peabody
The GARVIN family of Danvers
The REED family of Danvers
The KARCHER family of Rockport
The SAINT LOUIS family of Salem
The GONZALES family of Salem
The O’DONNELL-HOUGH family of Beverly
A new MAPP just graduated in June! Look for more names soon!
Wednesday, June 27, 2007
Thanks
Thank you to Phyllis Mondello for helping with the recruitment table at Endicott Park last weekend! Thanks also to Mary Ward from Central Office for running the event in my absence.
And yet more thanks to Carson Garvin and her friend Jayccee for helping with the booth as well.
This event was out most successful to date!!
And yet more thanks to Carson Garvin and her friend Jayccee for helping with the booth as well.
This event was out most successful to date!!
Kudos
The Lynn office thanks Linda Gogain...
I wanted to take the opportunity and thank you for lending us a home for two months. With the help of Linda, Yesenia was able to graduate from high school and move on to college. This would not have taken place without your assistance. I really appreciate all your and Linda's help.
Respectfully Submitted,
Maria Alvarado
I wanted to take the opportunity and thank you for lending us a home for two months. With the help of Linda, Yesenia was able to graduate from high school and move on to college. This would not have taken place without your assistance. I really appreciate all your and Linda's help.
Respectfully Submitted,
Maria Alvarado
Sunday, June 17, 2007
Storyland Tickets
We have a VERY limited number of FREE Storyland tickets. So if you are planning a trip let us know. We may be only able to give one pass per family, but that alone will save you $23.00.
Thursday, June 14, 2007
Discounts for summer activities
Water Country passes will be available again this year. This year’s admission is going up to $33.00. The pass price is $24.00. Tickets may be purchased from Carla. Cash only please. These passes will be available all summer. Passes are valid until the end of summer 2008. (Children under 48 inches are $20.00 at the door) 
Six Flags passes will be available this year. The regular admission is $49.99. The pass price is $25.00. (down $5 from last year!!) Tickets may be purchased from Carla. Cash only please. These passes will be available all summer. *** also available for purchase are season passes which are $64.99 (savings of $5 from buying at park). We also have meal passes. These cost $9.50 and are a savings of $3.50. There are several choices for meals. This is great if you want to let kids go off on their own, but don't want to give them money and make sure they eat instead of playing games etc.
Canobie Lake passes will be available this year. The regular admission is $28.00. The pass price is $23.00. Tickets may be purchased from Carla. Cash only please. These passes will be available all summer. (Children under 48 inches are $19 at the gate, children under 3 are free) Parking is free.
We now also have York's Wild Kingdom. The regualr admission is $14.25 for children and $18.25 for adults. The pass price is only $10. These tickets can be used from Memorial Day to Labor Day. (children under 4 years old are $4.00 and sold at the gate) Parking is free.
Six Flags passes will be available this year. The regular admission is $49.99. The pass price is $25.00. (down $5 from last year!!) Tickets may be purchased from Carla. Cash only please. These passes will be available all summer. *** also available for purchase are season passes which are $64.99 (savings of $5 from buying at park). We also have meal passes. These cost $9.50 and are a savings of $3.50. There are several choices for meals. This is great if you want to let kids go off on their own, but don't want to give them money and make sure they eat instead of playing games etc.
Canobie Lake passes will be available this year. The regular admission is $28.00. The pass price is $23.00. Tickets may be purchased from Carla. Cash only please. These passes will be available all summer. (Children under 48 inches are $19 at the gate, children under 3 are free) Parking is free.
We now also have York's Wild Kingdom. The regualr admission is $14.25 for children and $18.25 for adults. The pass price is only $10. These tickets can be used from Memorial Day to Labor Day. (children under 4 years old are $4.00 and sold at the gate) Parking is free.
Thank you!
Thank you to Jeff Holloran from the Salem Rotary who brought help and went through all our car seats. 90% of them were "expired".
Thank you to Steven Schaffer from our Area Board and Children's Friend and Family for donating some car seats that are newer and safer (these were the 10% we salvaged!).
The Cape Ann Office will be recieving some funding for new car seats very soon!
Today I am picking up 150 placement bags from St. Mary's School in Beverly! Thank you to all the students who collected and organized all the needed items for children entering foster care!
Thank you to Steven Schaffer from our Area Board and Children's Friend and Family for donating some car seats that are newer and safer (these were the 10% we salvaged!).
The Cape Ann Office will be recieving some funding for new car seats very soon!
Today I am picking up 150 placement bags from St. Mary's School in Beverly! Thank you to all the students who collected and organized all the needed items for children entering foster care!
Tuesday, June 12, 2007
High Five for Foster Families
Lisa Fernandes sends a high five to Leanne and Frank Ciaramatarro. Lisa called Leanne to pick up her foster child in Gloucester and she got a flat tire and was going to call AAA. Frank insisted on changing the tire himself so Lisa could be on her way. Great job Leanne and Frank!
Speaking of car trouble! Carla King send a high five to Sue and Frank Genovese. Carla's car broke down on a cold rainy night in Gloucester and Sue and Frank came to the rescue! Thank you Sue and Frank!
Phyllis Mondello answered a call to help in the office. Phyllis came in and cleaned out the donations room. This was one of several times she has done this for us! Thanks Phyllis!
Juli Lederhaus saw another recent posting about the need to clean that room out again, this time going through all the car seats. Juli put us in touch with the Salem Rotary who is sending volunteers to do the work! Then Elane Gilmore has offered to come in and organize the the rest! Thanks Juli and Elane! (and Salem Rotary!)
Speaking of car trouble! Carla King send a high five to Sue and Frank Genovese. Carla's car broke down on a cold rainy night in Gloucester and Sue and Frank came to the rescue! Thank you Sue and Frank!
Phyllis Mondello answered a call to help in the office. Phyllis came in and cleaned out the donations room. This was one of several times she has done this for us! Thanks Phyllis!
Juli Lederhaus saw another recent posting about the need to clean that room out again, this time going through all the car seats. Juli put us in touch with the Salem Rotary who is sending volunteers to do the work! Then Elane Gilmore has offered to come in and organize the the rest! Thanks Juli and Elane! (and Salem Rotary!)
Discount for Party Place
I found this new place! So cute! I asked the owner to give a discount to foster families and she readily agreed!!!
A GIRL'S PLACE, Party cafe and spa.
Tea Parties…Spa Parties…Dress up Parties
A fun new place to celebrate your birthday!
You will feel like a princess in our dressing room, filled with dresses, shoes and accessories. You will love the pampering in our “spa”, with mini mani’s, pedi’s and facials, while wearing our spa attire. You and your friends will also enjoy a tea luncheon in the friendship café. With options like chocolate fountains, goody bags, invitations and cakes, we will customize your party, especially for you!
We also have SUMMER CAMPS…a Culinary Camp and a Spa week. Call for more information-Space is filling quickly.
We will be opening in late June. Call now, for more information or to book your party. You can check us out on the web, at www.a-girls-place.com.
You’re invited…
To our Grand Opening, on Saturday, June 30th, from 11:00-2:00.
We will have refreshments and special savings on parties booked that day.
We are located at 100 Cummings Center, Suite 131-Q in
Beverly, Massachusetts. 978.922.2799
I would like to extend special offers to the
Foster Families who generously give their love and support.
Save 10% off any party package and receive a special gift for the birthday girl.
TAKE $25.00 OFF ANY SUMMER CAMP
A GIRL'S PLACE, Party cafe and spa.
Tea Parties…Spa Parties…Dress up Parties
A fun new place to celebrate your birthday!
You will feel like a princess in our dressing room, filled with dresses, shoes and accessories. You will love the pampering in our “spa”, with mini mani’s, pedi’s and facials, while wearing our spa attire. You and your friends will also enjoy a tea luncheon in the friendship café. With options like chocolate fountains, goody bags, invitations and cakes, we will customize your party, especially for you!
We also have SUMMER CAMPS…a Culinary Camp and a Spa week. Call for more information-Space is filling quickly.
We will be opening in late June. Call now, for more information or to book your party. You can check us out on the web, at www.a-girls-place.com.
You’re invited…
To our Grand Opening, on Saturday, June 30th, from 11:00-2:00.
We will have refreshments and special savings on parties booked that day.
We are located at 100 Cummings Center, Suite 131-Q in
Beverly, Massachusetts. 978.922.2799
I would like to extend special offers to the
Foster Families who generously give their love and support.
Save 10% off any party package and receive a special gift for the birthday girl.
TAKE $25.00 OFF ANY SUMMER CAMP
Masshealth
Mass Health Coverage for DSS Youth Leaving Care Between Ages 18-20
We are pleased to announce that, effective June 1, youth leaving DSS care/custody between the ages of 18 and 20 will be automatically eligible to receive Mass Health coverage under a new program until age 21.
As of June 2007 DSS has begun to send the names and addresses of our discharging youth to MassHealth (Office of Medicaid) for enrollment. Once enrolled, youth will receive a new MassHealth card, with a new MassHealth recipient identification number (RID). The cards will be sent directly to these youth at the open “Home” or “Mailing” address listed in the address window of Family Net. Therefore, it is imperative that the most current address for the youth be entered in the address window at the time of the closing. Otherwise, the new Mass Health card will not reach the youth.
If you learn of a new address for the youth after the case is closed, you may still enter it into Family Net. If no address remains open for the youth, the card will be sent to the area office where the case was closed. Please ensure that these cards reach the youth.
Be aware that if a youth is closed prior to his/her 18th birthday he/she WILL NOT BE IDENTIFIED AS ELIGIBLE for this continued MassHealth program.
In the coming months, eligibility for this benefit will also be extended to youth who previously discharged between ages 18 and 20 and are not yet age 21.
Should you have any questions regarding this benefit, you can contact Maureen Messeder at (617)748-2231.
We are pleased to announce that, effective June 1, youth leaving DSS care/custody between the ages of 18 and 20 will be automatically eligible to receive Mass Health coverage under a new program until age 21.
As of June 2007 DSS has begun to send the names and addresses of our discharging youth to MassHealth (Office of Medicaid) for enrollment. Once enrolled, youth will receive a new MassHealth card, with a new MassHealth recipient identification number (RID). The cards will be sent directly to these youth at the open “Home” or “Mailing” address listed in the address window of Family Net. Therefore, it is imperative that the most current address for the youth be entered in the address window at the time of the closing. Otherwise, the new Mass Health card will not reach the youth.
If you learn of a new address for the youth after the case is closed, you may still enter it into Family Net. If no address remains open for the youth, the card will be sent to the area office where the case was closed. Please ensure that these cards reach the youth.
Be aware that if a youth is closed prior to his/her 18th birthday he/she WILL NOT BE IDENTIFIED AS ELIGIBLE for this continued MassHealth program.
In the coming months, eligibility for this benefit will also be extended to youth who previously discharged between ages 18 and 20 and are not yet age 21.
Should you have any questions regarding this benefit, you can contact Maureen Messeder at (617)748-2231.
Sunday, June 10, 2007
Youth Excellance Awards
WOW ! I was so in awe of all the young adults at tonight's event at Jordan's Furniture.
From our office I saw several teens who graduated from High School. I saw Diane a Zac Smith with Justin. I saw Irene Olson with Krystle. And I was there and most proud of Laura Holt. I am sooooo proud of Laura, I would not be more proud if she were my own! Laura has taken all the negatives in her life and turned them into positives. She graduated High School, College and she wants to go back for her Master's degree. Laura was recently married as well!
Foster Parent Appreciation
Here are some pics from our event on May 16th. 
Judge Padden, Sue Todd (area board) and Jerry Curley all addressed the foster parents to let you know how much we all appreciate you!
PETER PAN!!
Hey all. Andy Diskes (Neverland Theatre) is putting on their next production, PETER PAN.... and our own Tony Bellarose (well, he is not ours anymore) is CAPTAIN HOOK!
Some of us saw him in Willy Wonka.... and I tell you... Tony's performance is NOT TO BE MISSED!
JULY:
Friday, 20 at 3pm & 7pm
Saturday, 21 at 10:30am & 4pm
Sunday, 22 at 2pm & 6pm
Hamilton-Wenham Community House
284 Bay Rd (Rte 1A), Hamilton, MA
Air-Conditioned!
TICKETS ON SALE NOW and SELLING FAST!
Tickets: $13
For Tickets:
1. Visit http://rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=vdc4zacab.0.iphaw7bab.fns7u9bab.1707&ts=S0254&p=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.neverlandtheatre.com%2F
2. Call 978 948-7925
3. E-mail info@neverlandtheatre.com
Tickets may be purchased in advance with a major credit card
Some of us saw him in Willy Wonka.... and I tell you... Tony's performance is NOT TO BE MISSED!
JULY:
Friday, 20 at 3pm & 7pm
Saturday, 21 at 10:30am & 4pm
Sunday, 22 at 2pm & 6pm
Hamilton-Wenham Community House
284 Bay Rd (Rte 1A), Hamilton, MA
Air-Conditioned!
TICKETS ON SALE NOW and SELLING FAST!
Tickets: $13
For Tickets:
1. Visit http://rs6.net/tn.jsp?t=vdc4zacab.0.iphaw7bab.fns7u9bab.1707&ts=S0254&p=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.neverlandtheatre.com%2F
2. Call 978 948-7925
3. E-mail info@neverlandtheatre.com
Tickets may be purchased in advance with a major credit card
Thursday, June 7, 2007
Peabody Park Program
Peabody- the parks and Recreation Deparment is accepting registration
for the summer playground program.
Peabody children ages 6-12 can register for one of three parks:
Forest Street Park, Carroll Savage Park, and Jubilee Park.
The program runs weekly from June 25-August 17. Each week the program offers
a field trip, sports, games and crafts, and make new friends.
Field trips include: Kimball Farm, Singing Beach,
Pump it up! the porgram runs from 8:30 a.m. to 2:45 p.m. daily.
The cost is $80 per week for a single child and $50 for every other child in the family.
A discounted rate is offered for families on the free or reduced luch program at school.
To register, call (978) 536-7130 or visit 50 Farm Avenue, Peabody, Ma 01960.
Emergency release forms and a copy of the child birth certificate are required.
for the summer playground program.
Peabody children ages 6-12 can register for one of three parks:
Forest Street Park, Carroll Savage Park, and Jubilee Park.
The program runs weekly from June 25-August 17. Each week the program offers
a field trip, sports, games and crafts, and make new friends.
Field trips include: Kimball Farm, Singing Beach,
Pump it up! the porgram runs from 8:30 a.m. to 2:45 p.m. daily.
The cost is $80 per week for a single child and $50 for every other child in the family.
A discounted rate is offered for families on the free or reduced luch program at school.
To register, call (978) 536-7130 or visit 50 Farm Avenue, Peabody, Ma 01960.
Emergency release forms and a copy of the child birth certificate are required.
Camp for kids affected by Cancer
My name is Katie Van Dorpe. I am President of the Nancy Bostley Memorial Fund/NANcamp, established in 1991 in memory of my sister. NANcamp was established to provide children affected by cancer an opportunity to have two fun-filled weeks at the Marblehead/Swampscott YMCA Children's Island Day Program or the YMCA Small Fry Camp at no cost to the families. Since 1991, we have been delighted to have sponsored over 300 camperships for children from 23 North Shore communities.We would like to invite you to view our web site, nancamp.org, which provides information on our programs for children affected by cancer. If you are aware of any child who might benefit from NANcamp, I would very much appreciate it if you would contact me. If you wish, I could send you informational brochures and copies of a wonderful article written about NANcamp.Thank you for taking the time to view our material and thank you for any referrals.Katie Van DorpePresidentNancy Bostley Memorial Fund/NANcampOne Leslie CoveMarblehead, MA 01945
Tuesday, June 5, 2007
College money for children in care through C&P
Foster Child Grant Program
Foster Child Grant Program provides grant monies for youth attending public and private post-secondary school full time in a degree granting program. Eligible youth were in the custody of DSS via a Care and Protection Petition and left care at age 18 without returning home or being adopted. Youth must file a Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) form and a Statement of Eligibility to qualify.
Foster Child Tuition Waiver
The Foster Child Tuition Waiver Program provides free undergraduate tuition to foster children at any one of Massachusetts' 29 state and community colleges and universities. Approved by the Board of Higher Education in June of 2000, this initiative provides state college undergraduate or certificate tuition waivers for current and former foster children and youth under a DSS sponsored Guardianship. Youth must be between the ages of 17 and 24, have not returned home, and were in foster care as a result of a Care and Protection petition. To apply, please send a copy of your birth certificate with a letter requesting the waiver that includes your name, social security number, date of birth, mailing address, and signature to The Foster Child Tuition Waiver Program at DSS 24 Farnsworth Street, Boston, MA 02210.
Foster Child Grant Program provides grant monies for youth attending public and private post-secondary school full time in a degree granting program. Eligible youth were in the custody of DSS via a Care and Protection Petition and left care at age 18 without returning home or being adopted. Youth must file a Free Application for Federal Student Aid (FAFSA) form and a Statement of Eligibility to qualify.
Foster Child Tuition Waiver
The Foster Child Tuition Waiver Program provides free undergraduate tuition to foster children at any one of Massachusetts' 29 state and community colleges and universities. Approved by the Board of Higher Education in June of 2000, this initiative provides state college undergraduate or certificate tuition waivers for current and former foster children and youth under a DSS sponsored Guardianship. Youth must be between the ages of 17 and 24, have not returned home, and were in foster care as a result of a Care and Protection petition. To apply, please send a copy of your birth certificate with a letter requesting the waiver that includes your name, social security number, date of birth, mailing address, and signature to The Foster Child Tuition Waiver Program at DSS 24 Farnsworth Street, Boston, MA 02210.
Tick removal
With Summer here, I thought this might help.
The best way to remove a tick.
This also works in those places where it's sometimes
difficult to get to with tweezers: between toes, in the middle of a
head full of dark hair, etc. (works on pets too).
Apply a glob of liquid soap to a cotton ball. Cover the tick with the
soap-soaked cotton ball and let it stay on the repulsive insect for a few seconds (20-30), after which the tick will come out on it's own and be stuck to the cotton ball when you lift it away.
This technique has worked every time I've tried it (and that has
been frequently). Unless someone is allergic to soap, I can't see that this would be damaging in any way.
"It works!" Please pass on; everyone can use this helpful hint.
The best way to remove a tick.
This also works in those places where it's sometimes
difficult to get to with tweezers: between toes, in the middle of a
head full of dark hair, etc. (works on pets too).
Apply a glob of liquid soap to a cotton ball. Cover the tick with the
soap-soaked cotton ball and let it stay on the repulsive insect for a few seconds (20-30), after which the tick will come out on it's own and be stuck to the cotton ball when you lift it away.
This technique has worked every time I've tried it (and that has
been frequently). Unless someone is allergic to soap, I can't see that this would be damaging in any way.
"It works!" Please pass on; everyone can use this helpful hint.
Saturday, June 2, 2007
Foster Parent in the Salem News.
This is a home from the Haverhill Office, but a nice story all the same!
The Mcloons took MAPP with the Salem Office so some of you may know them.
Ipswich foster family recognized for outstanding service
By Sean BourbeauStaff writer
IPSWICH - The McLoons want to let their foster children know they have support when they need it. David McLoon explains a simple gesture like buying a bureau can let the child know "you're here to stay."
"I'm happy to provide a safe place for the kids," David McLoon said.
David and his wife, Lisa, were recently among 37 foster parents recognized as "all stars" by the Department of Social Services and Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children.
All foster parents deserve to be recognized, said Betsy Antrim, the DSS social worker who nominated the McLoons. But she said she was especially touched by the couple's willingness to go above and beyond what's expected.
"They've gone the extra mile as far as traveling to communities to maintain visits and to do whatever they can to support that connection with the birth family," Antrim said. "There's a genuineness about them."
The couple said they fell into foster parenting by accident. Their first foster children were friends with their son Ian, 15, and daughter Erin, 13. As time went on, they spent more and more time at their house. In October 2004, the McLoons began what's known as a kinship placement, functioning as the children's guardians until they were reunited with their father.
After this experience, DSS asked if they would consider becoming foster parents. The McLoons agreed and took the required course. They have since taken six children into their home.
The McLoons view their role as foster parents as a natural extension of their personal and professional lives.
"We have a lot of kids around our house anyway," David McLoon said.
"On a normal day, there are 10 teenagers in the house," Lisa McLoon said. "They're fun because they really are kids but they're understanding the adult world."
Lisa McLoon is a registered nurse, and David McLoon is a lawyer. They both believe it's important to give back to the community.
David McLoon mostly represents low-income clients in cases of personal bankruptcy and child services. He splits his work schedule between his private practice and the Franciscan Hospital for Children. He's an active contributor to Neighborhood Legal Services in Lynn.
The couple hope their commitment to the community has positively influenced all of their children. Their son was chosen by his teachers to be in a mentorship program at his high school. Their foster daughter was recently elected by her peers to help pick the new principal.
A lot of the demands and stresses of being a teenager can be magnified as a foster child. The McLoons acknowledge this reality and want to provide a supportive, yet noninvasive, environment for their foster children.
"I try to leave the door open so they can always come in," said Lisa McLoon, adding, "sometimes I'll pull them in."
If anything is bothering her children, Lisa McLoon said, she'll take them down to the ocean with a bag of candy, sit down, talk and eat. The McLoons want their children to grow up feeling safe and comfortable, but Lisa McLoon extends this invitation to anyone who comes into her home.
"I want them to feel comfortable being able to come in and not (worry) about taking off their shoes," Lisa McLoon said.
The Mcloons took MAPP with the Salem Office so some of you may know them.
Ipswich foster family recognized for outstanding service
By Sean BourbeauStaff writer
IPSWICH - The McLoons want to let their foster children know they have support when they need it. David McLoon explains a simple gesture like buying a bureau can let the child know "you're here to stay."
"I'm happy to provide a safe place for the kids," David McLoon said.
David and his wife, Lisa, were recently among 37 foster parents recognized as "all stars" by the Department of Social Services and Massachusetts Society for the Prevention of Cruelty to Children.
All foster parents deserve to be recognized, said Betsy Antrim, the DSS social worker who nominated the McLoons. But she said she was especially touched by the couple's willingness to go above and beyond what's expected.
"They've gone the extra mile as far as traveling to communities to maintain visits and to do whatever they can to support that connection with the birth family," Antrim said. "There's a genuineness about them."
The couple said they fell into foster parenting by accident. Their first foster children were friends with their son Ian, 15, and daughter Erin, 13. As time went on, they spent more and more time at their house. In October 2004, the McLoons began what's known as a kinship placement, functioning as the children's guardians until they were reunited with their father.
After this experience, DSS asked if they would consider becoming foster parents. The McLoons agreed and took the required course. They have since taken six children into their home.
The McLoons view their role as foster parents as a natural extension of their personal and professional lives.
"We have a lot of kids around our house anyway," David McLoon said.
"On a normal day, there are 10 teenagers in the house," Lisa McLoon said. "They're fun because they really are kids but they're understanding the adult world."
Lisa McLoon is a registered nurse, and David McLoon is a lawyer. They both believe it's important to give back to the community.
David McLoon mostly represents low-income clients in cases of personal bankruptcy and child services. He splits his work schedule between his private practice and the Franciscan Hospital for Children. He's an active contributor to Neighborhood Legal Services in Lynn.
The couple hope their commitment to the community has positively influenced all of their children. Their son was chosen by his teachers to be in a mentorship program at his high school. Their foster daughter was recently elected by her peers to help pick the new principal.
A lot of the demands and stresses of being a teenager can be magnified as a foster child. The McLoons acknowledge this reality and want to provide a supportive, yet noninvasive, environment for their foster children.
"I try to leave the door open so they can always come in," said Lisa McLoon, adding, "sometimes I'll pull them in."
If anything is bothering her children, Lisa McLoon said, she'll take them down to the ocean with a bag of candy, sit down, talk and eat. The McLoons want their children to grow up feeling safe and comfortable, but Lisa McLoon extends this invitation to anyone who comes into her home.
"I want them to feel comfortable being able to come in and not (worry) about taking off their shoes," Lisa McLoon said.
Friday, June 1, 2007
Items for foster families
Sue Genovese and I picked up some items yesterday for you to have.
We currently have toddler beds with mattresses, and those window guards that you put in the window. I can usually get anything you need, so just ask. But these are items I have on hand at the moment.
I also have a carriage, a humidifier, twin headboard and full size headboard.
We currently have toddler beds with mattresses, and those window guards that you put in the window. I can usually get anything you need, so just ask. But these are items I have on hand at the moment.
I also have a carriage, a humidifier, twin headboard and full size headboard.
Thursday, May 31, 2007
Discounts for Foster Families
Hi all
Just a reminder that most second hand stores offer a discount to foster families!
Usually 10%.
Currently our partners include:
www.wornbutnotforgotten.com -- For 20% off Foster Parent Discount enter 308080999 in the voucher area during checkout. This offer cannot be combined with any other offer.
The Children's Orchard in Danvers www.childrensorchard.com
Just Kidding, Bridge Street, Beverly http://www.justkiddingresale.com/
Deja Vu (new store at 145 Cabot St). 978-407-4278
I will work on a more comprehensive list in the future. ( if anyone wants to call around and make a list to share, let me know!).
PLEASE NOTE: Most places will want to see proof that you are a foster parent. You should all have a picture ID. If you do not, please call Carla to make an appointment to come in the office and get one. 978-825-3862
Just a reminder that most second hand stores offer a discount to foster families!
Usually 10%.
Currently our partners include:
www.wornbutnotforgotten.com -- For 20% off Foster Parent Discount enter 308080999 in the voucher area during checkout. This offer cannot be combined with any other offer.
The Children's Orchard in Danvers www.childrensorchard.com
Just Kidding, Bridge Street, Beverly http://www.justkiddingresale.com/
Deja Vu (new store at 145 Cabot St). 978-407-4278
I will work on a more comprehensive list in the future. ( if anyone wants to call around and make a list to share, let me know!).
PLEASE NOTE: Most places will want to see proof that you are a foster parent. You should all have a picture ID. If you do not, please call Carla to make an appointment to come in the office and get one. 978-825-3862
Wednesday, May 30, 2007
Thank You!
Thank you's go to Sue Genovese for her help in picking up a large amount of baby items for foster parents (if you are in need of anything let me know!)
Thank you also to Phyllis Mondello for organizing the donation room.
We are still in need of a lot more organizing in the donations room. If you ever have time, please let Carla know. We would love the help. These items are used for children entering care, often with no clothes except the ones on their back!
Thanks! Carla
Thank you also to Phyllis Mondello for organizing the donation room.
We are still in need of a lot more organizing in the donations room. If you ever have time, please let Carla know. We would love the help. These items are used for children entering care, often with no clothes except the ones on their back!
Thanks! Carla
Tuesday, May 29, 2007
Cook book with ethnic recipes
This wonderful cookbook and rare cultural artifact was produced as a collaborative effort by the Brockton Area Department of Social Services’ Area Directors’ Advisory Group on Racial, Ethnic, and Linguistic Minority Affairs (RELMA), the Brockton Department of Social Services Area Board and Community Connections of Brockton. Many, many people contributed time and recipes in the creation of this book of more than 100 pages of food and healthy information.
This joyful and tasty cookbook serves several purposes. It is a resource for Foster Parents who may be caring for culturally divergent children to give them a way share in a small way in their culture and as a way of being welcoming. So there are recipes from many cultures represented, just as there are many cultures that make up the Brockton area. The cookbook also will raise limited funds for the local office and CCB to help parents and caring adults care for kids and strengthen families and the community.
You can have a cookbook of your own for a donation of $10 to either:
Tina Malave at the Brockton Area DSS Office by calling 508-894-3746
Or through Mark at CCB at the info below
Salud, Saude, Sante, Cin Cin, Kampai, Skal, Noroc, Gom bui, Slainte, L’chaim, Chukbae… und, Prost!
Sunday, May 27, 2007
Internship Oppurtunities for youth in care
Hello all,
Many of you have already responded to my previous internship email. I wanted to clarify with some more information. Youth between the ages of 14-20 who are in DSS care and custody, reside in foster care, and have a goal of independent living can request approval for an eighty hour internship at $7 an hour. Internships should be vocational/career interest related, or requested for those youth with little or no employment experience and need to build job skills/ confidence in the ability to secure employment on their own. The internship program should not be seen as an alternative to regular employment. In extenuated circumstances, youth may request extended hours beyond the initial 80 hours. These will be reviewed upon receipt and approval will depend upon budget, and the needs of the youth. Please do not have youth work beyond the 80 hours and expect to be paid without prior approval. Social workers and the youth will be responsible for identifying the internship placements. Once an internship is identified, please fill out the attached referral and submit to me. The internships should be identified no later than the end of June.
Please let me know if you have any questions.
Sincerely,
Jennifer Hubbard
Adolescent Outreach
Cape Ann/Lynn DSS
978-825-3918/781-477-1656
Many of you have already responded to my previous internship email. I wanted to clarify with some more information. Youth between the ages of 14-20 who are in DSS care and custody, reside in foster care, and have a goal of independent living can request approval for an eighty hour internship at $7 an hour. Internships should be vocational/career interest related, or requested for those youth with little or no employment experience and need to build job skills/ confidence in the ability to secure employment on their own. The internship program should not be seen as an alternative to regular employment. In extenuated circumstances, youth may request extended hours beyond the initial 80 hours. These will be reviewed upon receipt and approval will depend upon budget, and the needs of the youth. Please do not have youth work beyond the 80 hours and expect to be paid without prior approval. Social workers and the youth will be responsible for identifying the internship placements. Once an internship is identified, please fill out the attached referral and submit to me. The internships should be identified no later than the end of June.
Please let me know if you have any questions.
Sincerely,
Jennifer Hubbard
Adolescent Outreach
Cape Ann/Lynn DSS
978-825-3918/781-477-1656
Youth Summit
Hi everyone,
Given the number of questions we've been getting here, I wanted to provide you with more information on the June 13 Youth Summit. We are hoping to have 200 youth attend the event and, if social workers need to provide transportation, we are able to accommodate some of them as well. Youth are to be between the ages of 16-20 and in out of home care. The day's agenda is as follows:
9:30-10:30- Registration and continental breakfast
10:30-11:30- Panel
11:30- 12:00- Presenter
12:00-1:00- Lunch
1:00-2:00- Session 1
2:00-3:00- Session 2
3:00-3:15- Break
3:15-4:15- Session 3
4:15-5:15- Closing and raffle
The sessions will include: Alternatives to Higher Education, How to Buy a Car, Personal Care and Sex Education, Relaxation, Expressing Yourself through Dance, Jewelry Making. Also during the day, there will be a table to discuss leadership opportunities within the Department for youth. There will be areas where youth can have dog tags and airbrush hats made.
Given the number of questions we've been getting here, I wanted to provide you with more information on the June 13 Youth Summit. We are hoping to have 200 youth attend the event and, if social workers need to provide transportation, we are able to accommodate some of them as well. Youth are to be between the ages of 16-20 and in out of home care. The day's agenda is as follows:
9:30-10:30- Registration and continental breakfast
10:30-11:30- Panel
11:30- 12:00- Presenter
12:00-1:00- Lunch
1:00-2:00- Session 1
2:00-3:00- Session 2
3:00-3:15- Break
3:15-4:15- Session 3
4:15-5:15- Closing and raffle
The sessions will include: Alternatives to Higher Education, How to Buy a Car, Personal Care and Sex Education, Relaxation, Expressing Yourself through Dance, Jewelry Making. Also during the day, there will be a table to discuss leadership opportunities within the Department for youth. There will be areas where youth can have dog tags and airbrush hats made.
Books for your use
These are books, movies etc. that I have on hand for you to borrow anytime.
THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO PRESCRIPTION DRUGS
TRANSFORMING FAMILIES
TRUE SELVES
TOO MUCH OF A GOOD THING
ANOTHER PLACE AT THE TABLE
ORPHANS OF THE LIVING
THE HEART KNOWS SOMETHING DIFFERENT
MORTON’S COLLEGE STUDENT DICTIONARY (8 COPIES)
THE STAR: STORIES TO HELP YOUNG CHILDREN UNDERSTAND FOSTER CARE
MAYBE DAYS: A BOOK FOR CHILDREN IN FOSTER CARE
SEVENTEEN: HOW TO BE GORGEOUS
VIDEO TENDER HEALING
VIDEO SINGLE PARENTING
VIDEO SIBLING RIVALRY
PAMPHLET SAFE AND SANITARY HOUSING (2 COPIES)
PAMPHLET CHILDREN, TEENS & GRIEF (4 COPIES)
LOW-RISK DE-LEADING BY HOMEOWNERS
ND THEIR AGENTS
THE INNER COMPASS
TO MY CHILD
PAMPHLET THE MASSACHUSETTS WOMAN’S DIVORCE HANDBOOK
PAMPHLET INTERVIEWING SEXUAL ABUSE VICTIMS USING ANATOMICAL DOLLS
FOR YOUR OWN GOOD
PAMPHLET PARENTS GUIDE TO CHILDHOOD IMMUNIZATION
PAMPHLET COME TELL ME RIGHT AWAY
PAMPHLET SCHIZOPHRENIA
SOS! HELP FOR PARENTS
LEGAL TACTICS: TENANTS RIGHTS IN MASSACHUSETTS
FAMILY LAW ADVOCACY FOR LOW AND MODERATE INCOME LITIGANTS
ADVOCACY GUIDES
. MASS MEDICAID
. EAEDC (2 COPIES)
. FOOD STAMPS
. NEW WELFARE RULES
. UNEMPLOYMENT (2 COPIES)
. SOCIAL SECURITY
VIDEO FOR KIDS SAKE
VIDEO BASIC PARENTING SKILLS
AFTER ADOPTION: A GUIDE FOR FAMILIES
PAMPHLET PARENTS GUIDE TO CHILDHOOD IMMUNIZATION
HELPING YOUR CHILD SUCCEED IN SCHOOL
NEWSLETTER FAMILY TIES
LIST CAPE ANN DIRECTORY OF HIV/AIDS RESOURCES
INTER 2003
PAMPHLET DIVORCE AND THE ALTERNATIVES
AMPHLET NAME CHANGES; NAMING YOUR CHILDREN; RECORDING YOUR CHILD’S NAME; CHANGING YOUR NAME;
HANGING YOUR CHILD’S NAME: INFORMATION ABOUT HOW TO ESTABLISH PATERNITY
PAMPHLET THE ADOPTION SUBSIDY PROGRAM (2 COPIES)
PAMPHLET THE GUARDIANSHIP SUBSIDY PROGRAM
VACCINE SAFETY: WHAT EVERY PARENT SHOULD KNOW - 2003
FOSTERING FAMILY TODAY (MAGAZINE) 19 ISSUES 2001 -2006
BUTTONS THE FOSTER BUNNY
THE RIGHT TO LIGHT (AND HEAT) HANDBOOK
BOOKLET A GUIDE FOR FOSTER AND ADOPTIVE PARENTS
SEEKING SERVICES, THE 51A INVESTIGATION AND CONSUMER RIGHTS DURING AN INVESTIGATION
BOOKLET WHAT ITS BEST FOR YOUR CHILD
FAMILY GROUP CONFERENCE TRAINING - APRIL 2003 (TRAINING MATERIAL)
RESPONSIBILITIES OF THE DSS AND SCHOOL DISTRICTS FOR CHILDREN IN DSS CARE OR CUSTODY
MOM, I NEED TO BE A GIRL: IF YOU ARE CONCERNED ABOUT YOUR CHILD’S GENDER BEHAVIORS
BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM: A PARENT’S PLANNING GUIDE
AUTISM SPECTRUM DISORDERS IN ADOLESCENCE
WHERE TO WRITE FOR VITAL RECORDS
ADVOCACY GUIDE FOR TAFDC
PAMPHLET NORTH SHORE ARC
A RESOURCE GUIDE FOR MASSACHUSETTS GRANDPARENTS RAISING THERE CHILDREN
HOW TO GET CHILD SUPPORT
LEAFLET SPECIAL EDUCATION IN MASSACHUSETTS
LEAFLET EMANCIPATION AND THE LEGAL RIGHTS OF MINORS IN MASSACHUSETTS
INFORMATION ABOUT HOW TO FILE PAPERS IN ESSEX AND FAMILY COURT
DSS - THE GUARDIANSHIP SUBSIDY PROGRAM
BOOKLET ADOLESCENTS AND THEIR FAMILIES
DSS GUIDE TO MASS HEALTH (2 COPIES)
MISCELLANEOUS RECRUITMENT MATERIALS
FLASHPOINT - DISTRICT ATTORNEYS OFFICE
VOLUME 3 - CLOSE UP ON UNDERAGE DRINKING
VOLUME 4 - CLOSE UP ON INTERNET INTELLIGENCE.
PAMPHLET MAKING CULTURAL CONNECTION - HAIR, SKIN, AND DIET FOR CHILDREN OF COLOR
PAMPHLET PARENT RESOURCE GUIDE FOR CHILDREN WITH DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITIES (20 COPIES)
PAMPHLET A GUIDE TO CRISIS INTERVENTION AND PLANNING FOR FOSTER AND ADOPTIVE FAMILIES
THE ESSENTIAL GUIDE TO PRESCRIPTION DRUGS
TRANSFORMING FAMILIES
TRUE SELVES
TOO MUCH OF A GOOD THING
ANOTHER PLACE AT THE TABLE
ORPHANS OF THE LIVING
THE HEART KNOWS SOMETHING DIFFERENT
MORTON’S COLLEGE STUDENT DICTIONARY (8 COPIES)
THE STAR: STORIES TO HELP YOUNG CHILDREN UNDERSTAND FOSTER CARE
MAYBE DAYS: A BOOK FOR CHILDREN IN FOSTER CARE
SEVENTEEN: HOW TO BE GORGEOUS
VIDEO TENDER HEALING
VIDEO SINGLE PARENTING
VIDEO SIBLING RIVALRY
PAMPHLET SAFE AND SANITARY HOUSING (2 COPIES)
PAMPHLET CHILDREN, TEENS & GRIEF (4 COPIES)
LOW-RISK DE-LEADING BY HOMEOWNERS
ND THEIR AGENTS
THE INNER COMPASS
TO MY CHILD
PAMPHLET THE MASSACHUSETTS WOMAN’S DIVORCE HANDBOOK
PAMPHLET INTERVIEWING SEXUAL ABUSE VICTIMS USING ANATOMICAL DOLLS
FOR YOUR OWN GOOD
PAMPHLET PARENTS GUIDE TO CHILDHOOD IMMUNIZATION
PAMPHLET COME TELL ME RIGHT AWAY
PAMPHLET SCHIZOPHRENIA
SOS! HELP FOR PARENTS
LEGAL TACTICS: TENANTS RIGHTS IN MASSACHUSETTS
FAMILY LAW ADVOCACY FOR LOW AND MODERATE INCOME LITIGANTS
ADVOCACY GUIDES
. MASS MEDICAID
. EAEDC (2 COPIES)
. FOOD STAMPS
. NEW WELFARE RULES
. UNEMPLOYMENT (2 COPIES)
. SOCIAL SECURITY
VIDEO FOR KIDS SAKE
VIDEO BASIC PARENTING SKILLS
AFTER ADOPTION: A GUIDE FOR FAMILIES
PAMPHLET PARENTS GUIDE TO CHILDHOOD IMMUNIZATION
HELPING YOUR CHILD SUCCEED IN SCHOOL
NEWSLETTER FAMILY TIES
LIST CAPE ANN DIRECTORY OF HIV/AIDS RESOURCES
INTER 2003
PAMPHLET DIVORCE AND THE ALTERNATIVES
AMPHLET NAME CHANGES; NAMING YOUR CHILDREN; RECORDING YOUR CHILD’S NAME; CHANGING YOUR NAME;
HANGING YOUR CHILD’S NAME: INFORMATION ABOUT HOW TO ESTABLISH PATERNITY
PAMPHLET THE ADOPTION SUBSIDY PROGRAM (2 COPIES)
PAMPHLET THE GUARDIANSHIP SUBSIDY PROGRAM
VACCINE SAFETY: WHAT EVERY PARENT SHOULD KNOW - 2003
FOSTERING FAMILY TODAY (MAGAZINE) 19 ISSUES 2001 -2006
BUTTONS THE FOSTER BUNNY
THE RIGHT TO LIGHT (AND HEAT) HANDBOOK
BOOKLET A GUIDE FOR FOSTER AND ADOPTIVE PARENTS
SEEKING SERVICES, THE 51A INVESTIGATION AND CONSUMER RIGHTS DURING AN INVESTIGATION
BOOKLET WHAT ITS BEST FOR YOUR CHILD
FAMILY GROUP CONFERENCE TRAINING - APRIL 2003 (TRAINING MATERIAL)
RESPONSIBILITIES OF THE DSS AND SCHOOL DISTRICTS FOR CHILDREN IN DSS CARE OR CUSTODY
MOM, I NEED TO BE A GIRL: IF YOU ARE CONCERNED ABOUT YOUR CHILD’S GENDER BEHAVIORS
BECAUSE YOU LOVE THEM: A PARENT’S PLANNING GUIDE
AUTISM SPECTRUM DISORDERS IN ADOLESCENCE
WHERE TO WRITE FOR VITAL RECORDS
ADVOCACY GUIDE FOR TAFDC
PAMPHLET NORTH SHORE ARC
A RESOURCE GUIDE FOR MASSACHUSETTS GRANDPARENTS RAISING THERE CHILDREN
HOW TO GET CHILD SUPPORT
LEAFLET SPECIAL EDUCATION IN MASSACHUSETTS
LEAFLET EMANCIPATION AND THE LEGAL RIGHTS OF MINORS IN MASSACHUSETTS
INFORMATION ABOUT HOW TO FILE PAPERS IN ESSEX AND FAMILY COURT
DSS - THE GUARDIANSHIP SUBSIDY PROGRAM
BOOKLET ADOLESCENTS AND THEIR FAMILIES
DSS GUIDE TO MASS HEALTH (2 COPIES)
MISCELLANEOUS RECRUITMENT MATERIALS
FLASHPOINT - DISTRICT ATTORNEYS OFFICE
VOLUME 3 - CLOSE UP ON UNDERAGE DRINKING
VOLUME 4 - CLOSE UP ON INTERNET INTELLIGENCE.
PAMPHLET MAKING CULTURAL CONNECTION - HAIR, SKIN, AND DIET FOR CHILDREN OF COLOR
PAMPHLET PARENT RESOURCE GUIDE FOR CHILDREN WITH DEVELOPMENTAL DISABILITIES (20 COPIES)
PAMPHLET A GUIDE TO CRISIS INTERVENTION AND PLANNING FOR FOSTER AND ADOPTIVE FAMILIES
Saturday, May 26, 2007
RESPITES
After 6 months of being a foster parent, you are eligible for 10 days of respite per year.
Please note:
- Please talk with your family resource worker when you need respite, please do not make respite plans yourself.
- Your family resource worker will submit paperwork to MPSCC.
- You and the respite provider will receive something to sign and return.
- PLEASE let your family resource worker know when you have been paid. There has been an issue with payments in the past and Carla is tracking to make sure everyone gets paid. It is VERY difficult to fix after July 1st when the fiscal years starts again.
Please note:
- Please talk with your family resource worker when you need respite, please do not make respite plans yourself.
- Your family resource worker will submit paperwork to MPSCC.
- You and the respite provider will receive something to sign and return.
- PLEASE let your family resource worker know when you have been paid. There has been an issue with payments in the past and Carla is tracking to make sure everyone gets paid. It is VERY difficult to fix after July 1st when the fiscal years starts again.
Foster Parent Appreciation
On Wednesday May 16th, The Hawthorne Hotel hosted our annual foster parent appreciation dinner! I think everyone had a great time! The money for the event was raised by the social workers in the office and the area board. Every foster family was invited. Over forty foster homes came and enjoyed a wonderful dinner. Each foster family also took home two (or more!) door prizes including whale watches, free dinners and gift cards.
Pictures to be posted soon!
Pictures to be posted soon!
Welcome!
Welcome to the Cape Ann DSS blog for foster families!
Many of you have asked if I could post all the e-mails I send on a website where they can be seen at all times. So I am trying this. I hope it is informative and helpful. I am happy to take any suggestions you have to make this work better for you!
Carla
Many of you have asked if I could post all the e-mails I send on a website where they can be seen at all times. So I am trying this. I hope it is informative and helpful. I am happy to take any suggestions you have to make this work better for you!
Carla
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